Please, share some tips to deal with work stress. I'm getting crankier more than ever with the huge amount of workload. I was not like this, but I'm so tired of the mentality "Send it to Paul, he can solve it" (Paul is my fake name). New hireds cant do the job, old seniors are quiting like birds...

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“Better call Paul.”
Seriously, though, I hear you. I’ve been creating fake meetings on my calendar so I can block enough time to get my tasks done.

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I create meetings to sit and do nothing. Some people also love to take Fridays off for a 3 day weekend. I take Mondays off because no one really takes Monday off and no one likes to work on Friday so it's almost like a 4 day weekend for me.

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I am just here for the advice bc same

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Honest conversations with people help. I’ve also taken some FAQs I receive and created an email signature with it, so I can just select that signature when I get stupid questions from people.

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Deep breathing, mini-meditation helps too. But do the fake meetings :-)

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