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They can be great if done right... short, optional, and on the clock. Otherwise, it just breeds resentment.

I think things like that are insulting and I would never want to participate in them. We do plenty of team bonding in the restaurant and occasionally at a nearby bar. We don't need to go to a climbing wall or some other ridiculous activity to learn how to work with each other.

Complete waste of time IMO. The only one I go to is our holiday party, because the food is great and it's actually fun. Karaoke, axe throwing, escape room? No thank you.

Mandatory automatically equates to not fun for me. I do like team building, think it can do a lot of good, but being forced to like each other isn’t always the best way to do it.

My kids are in elementary school so a lot easier than before. When they were little I wouldn’t go out, but nowadays, I can leave them with grandma for a bit, so I don’t mind spending some time at company party.

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