How do you handle pushy co-workers who don't stay in their line and criticize your work or try to hijack it and take over? Do I say something to my manager or keep my chin up and keep rocking it?

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Did you already try hashing things out directly with this person? It might seem to you like they're trying to hijack you but it might be that they're just trying to be helpful. They MIGHT be, but you won't really know until you sit down with them and try to get on the same page. Tell them that you feel like they're overstepping their boundaries a bit and that you'd appreciate it if they reserved their feedback and guidance for when you explicitly ask for it. It doesn't have to get hostile, unless you or they make it so. It things become that way, then you can consider getting your manager involved. In that situation, I would propose that your coworker gets assigned more responsibilities since they have so much extra time in their hands to do your job too ;)

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Thank you! I have a hard time with confrontation but I need to just bite the bullet and address it w her first.

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