I am very selfless in bed and dominant. I just want a lot of sex from my bf only but he is more chill. Am I weird or toxic? We been dating over a year and I feel like honeymoon phase for him died in first 6 months. I am still in it :( could it just be work and life is stressing him out ?

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Sounds like you have a strong and healthy libido and good for you.theres nothing better, in my opinion. Im a bit high strung myself and even as im in my 50s ,my urges are more frequent it seems than my girlfriend. Our funtime isnt boring really so quality isnt the issue but quantity. If i coukd have my way there would definitely be more variety and more time dedicated. your husband should consider himself lucky as hell to have someone that wants to keep lovemaking at the top of the priority list. If you're a up for anything, anytime type of gal,then you should get double keeper points. I think I've gotten bitten myself from being the one that overly making it clear that I would make myself available for anything anytime. I have said it and meant it but part of that sentiment comes from being with who you are with gives you incentive and desire and the wanting to pleasure them. But I think the interpretation they get is that if they know they can have whatever, whenever, they figure there's no need to put in any effort because they can get it whenever they want it. Originally it was a mutually free for all,now I get left holding the bag more often and I think that it's not realized that the reason is your feelings for your partner is what gives that motivation but they interpret it as desperation .I really think ego takes over and sex starts to only happen when they want it. And if they dont, you're shit out of luck. Sounds like you like a sex life with spice, variety, frequency maybe a little adventure. Your husband is an idiot if he can't see ,respect ,and realize what he has is a rarity and should be tending to your sexual needs before someone else does. Best of luck to you

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