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I'm curious why you make so much money and you're not saving more. Is there a lifestyle creep going on? Because it sounds like there is $7000 unaccounted for between what you make and your housing costs, I wonder if you can reduce your expenses and invest more.
Everybody sleeps a little better with a few rubles under their pillow. Sounds like you made a major purchase, then got hit with some unexpected bills and are going through a bit of a freak out. It happens. Just make yourself a good realistic long term plan that gets you where you want to go and check in on that to ground yourself when needed.
You’re definitely not an idiot. You just made a decision that balances your life with your money and honestly, that’s what most people are doing now.You wanted space, freedom, a yard for your chickens and dogs, and a home you actually love — not just a place to sleep. That’s not foolish; that’s living.Yeah, $4,000 on a $10–11K take-home is tight, but it’s doable if you stay disciplined. It just means you might not be maxing out FIRE goals right now but you’re building a real life with daily joy and stability.And you’re right everyone’s accepting that houses are expensive now. The old 3x your income” rule is pretty much dead in most cities. You’re not alone in this at all.You can thrive maybe not in the “retire at 45” way, but in the “happy, grounded, growing, and free” way. And that’s worth a lot. Do you mind following me back please ☺️?
Are we allowed to say ‘ghetto’ again? I was always fine with it, as it historically has more Jewish roots, which is my background, than African American roots, but I thought that expression was taken off the table years ago? Lemme know and I’ll look to reincorporate it where I can.
Oh stop being soft we all know what ghetto, hood etc means.
I’m from the projects and the only people who get offended are liberal white women. All of us who were born & bred know what it is.
Also can I just whine. I grew up in a FIVE THOUSAND square foot home not that far from here my parents bought for $300k. They sold it for 800. So. It sucks that's all.
Hello do you mind following me back please ☺️?
Why not move to another low to moderate cost of living area in another state?
Where do you live in south Atlanta?
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How is your mortgage so high?
Payment on 30 year mortgage at 6.5% should be around $3000. Is that with escrow / taxes too?
Reading your other comment $1700 is not a bad amount.
How much are you putting into retirement accounts? Ensure you both get the match.
There's no match at our companies. That's before retirement (other than the 600, it's the 401k loan I used for the down payment). We're selling the condo and will pay it back. We currently have $190k in retirement without the loan satisfied age 34.