I Got engaged recently in May month. I met her for 1 hour before engagement and i felt this is not good for me as my career is not aligned with her lifestyle. Due to my parents pressure I had to say yes. No career, no future goals, just only helping her family in daily work and i have ask her to think about her career but no clear answer. Looks like my future is dark. What to expect in relationship?

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