I hate being autistic I have no friends, can’t find a gf, get treated worse at work, I’m 29 years old and never even have been in a relationship, what do I do?

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Look into the Autism Experts. I think that’s what the organization is called. The guy that runs it is Danny Reid, I think. But it’s a great resource. There are lots of young adults struggling with exactly what you’re describing. Autism can be a super power. This world just hasn’t caught up with you. Look for ways to connect with others in your shoes. Video game and card game online and in person meet ups might be a place to start if you’re into any of that.

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Yes! Find your tribe! They are out there.

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Money. You can be short and ugly, but if you’re rich you will find the girl.

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No, not bad to be loved first for money. It’s actually less shallow than being loved for physical attributes and many great relationships have started that way.

Getting money means you’ve made yourself into a dependable, solid, successful man. That’s attractive with good reason.

Normal, well adjusted, smart women are attracted to successful men and it’s not shallow it’s totally logical.

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Alright buddy hang in there.

You need to treat the problem of relationship as something to analyze and solve.

Doing so will take you through a lot of information. Some of it is better than others. There is excellent advice out there for guys like you, and it’s adjacent to ideas that society currently considers subversive and unacceptable. The answer is to read everyone and reject the darkness. Do not take the black pill, but you would be a fool to not consider reading about power, gender dynamics, masculine self improvement, and relationship game.

Start with Robert Greene, the 48 laws of power, and his book on seduction. Consider reading the relationship game books— Strauss, Rollo Tomassi, etc. Start listening to masculine people like Joe Rogan so you can understand how the other side lives.

All of this stuff will help you understand the traditional masculine male archetype. The autistic person seeking women as you are is never going to be that traditional masculine male archetype but it’s very important to understand what that archetype, and the feminine, is.

Begin this journey and don’t ever believe there is no relationship out there for you. I guarantee you can have a solid girlfriend in three months if you follow any one method the manosphere outlines. But if you’re like me and like your life with less misogyny, you’ll have to read their stuff, take what’s good, drop the rest, construct your own worldview, and go from there.

I met my relationships online in special interest communities. Shocker, we were both autistic lol.

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