I have been having difficulties in my current job after moving to a different team as they don't seem to coach me or give guidance. Also, they are very crude when I approach for help.
Have perceived my managers on the issues. Instead of helping me, they are asking me to up skill my knowledge, which is part of the solution but not probelm solving ☹️
How should I deal with this situation?

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I was in a similar job for about an year.. nobody wanted to share knowledge there. So I left the company. But it was a horrible time, I had started feeling that I know nothing and I can never progress in IT.

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Its hard to be positive nowadays in any work. When I joined IT industry i thought in IT we will not have politics and shit but its there. Ppl dont want to work together. They just want to keep their power. They achieve something and they wanna keep it anyhow. Its really sad. You wanna work with your open heart but ppl above you wont let it because in the end their position will be in danger. Why would be in danger? You know stuff, you have knowledge, you can grow more and more. Right??

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