I joined B4 2 years ago and now I’m a senior. This job is so hard on me mentally and physically. I had a mental breakdown in the last busy season. The only way I managed to take some time off was catching Covid. I finally reached out to mental health resources the firm offers but I keep falling into lows. Now I’m feeling mentally broken again for this spring and I don’t know if I can hang on more. Am I crazy for just wanting to quit right after 4/15 to step away from PA for a while? With no job?

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Nope you’re definitely not the only one, I feel this way too. I’ve been at b4 for 3 years now and this busy season might have been the most mentally draining one for me. I think I’m depressed from this job, I’m always tired and when I have free time I end up doing nothing since I’m so mentally exhausted. I’ve contemplated quitting without anything lined up but I don’t want to make a rash decision so I decided I’ll just seriously start looking for an exit. Best of luck to you, and seriously think hard if you can afford to quit without anything lined up.

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Thanks TS1, glad to know that I’m not the only one who feels this way.

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