Sad post, in need of some support **** my partner and i tried for 1 year to conceive naturally, only to have a miscarriage and start our IVF journey. 1 year into that - we had 5 healthy PGT-A and PGT-M tested embryos and were hopeful to implant. Implantation 1 just failed. We lost 20% of our chances that took 1 year to build. And tine just keeps ticking

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I’ve had the same thing. Had 6 embryos and after one FET ended in chemical I’m down to 4 since one embryo didn’t survive thaw. It sucks when it happens but I’ve been told transfer chances get better with each successive one so fingers crossed for you that you’ll get your bfp soon!

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We are thinking of her doing a laparoscopy to remove endometriosis, don’t want to lose anymore embryos

Sending you all the love 💕 it’s such a difficult journey but will be worth it in the end

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I only had one embryo from my retrieval and that FET just failed. I am back to square one! another round of retrievals. I was very realistic with myself and am not overly upset… but it just sucks that all of the works from March - August only got one one health embryo that didn’t take. It’s all such a long haul. Ugh!

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What does your doctor say why implantation didn’t take place? What additional tests and next steps do they recommend? After a miscarriage I did an ERA and ReceptivaDx test, not sure if these tests will increase the chances of implementation. Wish you all the best on this brutal journey.

Mine said it can be anything from genetic abnormality (even with genetic testing they only test for proper number of chromosomes so it cannot detect very genetic issue) to bacterial imbalance in uterus or polyps, etc. next step was a hystosonigram to check for polyps (I’ve had some removed before so wanted to check more didn’t appear) and a mock cycle with a biopsy of uterine lining to check if it’s actually receptive (no infection, bacterial imbalance, etc).

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