I never do this but I need some objective advice. My wife is 5mo pregnant and my sister is getting married. Wedding was adjusted because of COVID but she set the date knowing I might not be able to attend as I’d have to fly there. Now I’m conflicted because if I attend, I’d have to quarantine for 2 weeks away from my wife and miss a couple DR appts. I’m her only support where we live. Would be stressful for her but I’m getting immense pressure from my parents to attend the wedding. Advice?

Happy wife happy life is a really toxic saying. I’m just shocked how this has become the standard saying for men in relationships. I have friends of mine saying this all the time, and I have just thought it’s so cringe and always want to say my thoughts on it but always decide to hold back. However, imagine the saying reversed - happy husband happy life - that would lead to all kinds of uproar. To me happy wife happy life means I need to sacrifice my wants and needs to make my wife happy.

What's the biggest health myth you've heard that you'd like to bust? Mine is that supplements are always a healthier option than prescription or OTC meds. A lot of the supplements on the shelf contain all types of unnatural ingredients and can still be harmful depending on the dosage.

I have an H1b which I received in 2019 and was valid till august2021, due to covid I wasn't able to travel and then I switched to another firm last year in November. If I get visa transfer, will it provide me a validity back as I haven't used any on site time on that visa.

TIA

Going to Charlioftsville next weekend, any wineries, restaurants, breweries, hiking etc...to do there during COVID. Appreciate your insight!!!!

If you loved your small independent broker dealer but they had just been acquired by a much larger corporation which does have benefits in terms, mostly, in technology, but you lose your “family” in the home office, what would you do and who would you look at if you were considering a change of your own?

Do partners really have to pay for their own health insurance???

To the struggling healthcare student. It’s okay to struggle and not know stuff. Sincerely your friendly neighborhood physical therapist.

Looking to move to San Antonio and we're looking at places in Alta Vista and El Dorado. Pros and cons? We have two kids under five, so looking for a nice family community with good schools.

Anyone talk to a Muslim therapist? Muslim matters because I’d like to talk about marital issues, and not sure others will get the religious context. NYC preferred. TIA!

Does Google NYC offer day care? I’m a recent parent and got a verbal offer but I’ve realized that I never asked about parent benefits throughout the interview process. Not a big deal just curious about it.

What are the pros and cons for Tricare Reserve Select compared to health insurance from your civilian employer ( specifically in DMV area)?

Thinking about letting go my givenchy antigona. Anyone interested / recommending resellers?

Located in NYC

I have one month left to finish my thesis. I know, I’ve screwed up. Anxiety got the best of me. Is there still hope?

Looking for some mental health advice - I’ve been dealing with pretty debilitating anxiety/panic attacks for over 5 years. Finally started to get some help for it through medication, however the first 3 meds my PCP prescribed me (ssris) didn’t work. Because I haven’t deal with the anxiety it’s gotten really bad. Do I go to a pyscitatrist whose trained more in pharma or start with therapist. Have done therapy in past without much help.

Does anyone else struggle with remembering to eat lunch on busy days? I totally forget to feed myself and end up tired and cranky by the end of the day because of it.

Good evening all,
With my partner we are considering making a move to the countryside of Switzerland, with a gorgeous RE project offering incredible views on immaculate mountains and lake. However, it is far away, and will require 1h+ train/car commute vs. 10 min biking right now. We are scared it will bite us back at some point, although COVID helped w/ remote working being a new norm. The project will be done 2024, so I hope to have a more relax job by then. Any similar experience to share?

How can one overcome anxiety when presenting?

Oracle job status : screening means?

Has anyone been to the IFS “Leadership Milestone Experience”? How is it? Worth attending?

What is the band for SE1 & SE2 in Amex ??

Gosh i just posted on the wrong bowl how do i undo or move to this bowl? 😣☹️

What is the comparision between Infosys band 6B and Band 8 of IBM? Any pointers please!

I recently joined Accenture(lvl 12). I am 2 months in a support project now. How do I get good and get my work noticed?

Why do people, esp not the witness, bother with suits still in depos?

Housecleaning services?
I’m in midtown west and need a new housecleaner. Looking to pay $100/cleaning. Does anyone have any recommendations for someone who is trustworthy and reliable? I would also need them to do laundry (laundry is one floor above and below me - every other floor in my building).

Hi Guys, Any idea on the hike % for 2021 EOY appraisal for respective rating??
And also any updates on when it will be communicated??

Anyone currently freelancing for a big tech co? Dying for some tips / hints on how to get my foot in the door...!

Hello, Can someone refer me at Amazon. I have 16 yrs exp working in Accounts & French operations. Looking for day shift opening only. Thanks in advance!

Any tips for staying healthy while traveling for work regularly, esp to smaller cities/towns with limited healthy takeouts? When there are no healthy options available I usually just not eat or eat a super basic salad (eg lettuce + chicken), and I bring some protein bars and appetite suppressant fiber crackers with me. But my life has been super miserable and I find myself hangry all the time, bloated from eating too much raw veg, and waking up in the middle of the night starving 😭

I recently received an offer for 200k€ in Amsterdam. Includes travel, 30% ruling, holiday pay.

Any idea if that is enough to cover a mortgage on a flat within biking distance from the city center without over spending on housing?

(3 small kids and a non-working partner)

Hi Doctors,
Can a man die of schezophrenia if he do not take medicines?
Exp : 6 yrs, kava, spring boot, microservices and aws.
Curr Comp: Concentrix,
prev Comp: Citi, Fiserv, TCS and Accenture.
Thanks!

Average hours/week in comparable practice areas at McK vs BCG? Wondering what everyone’s experience was hours-wise, and if there was any real disparity between M and B. Thanks!

I have offer letter from salesforce CTC 17.84 lpa, but I don't want to join as a support engineer, are there any companies which can match this offer ?
Please suggest 🙏

How does your firm compensate attorneys who bring in new business/clients?

How common is it to have a bunch of awards (like lions, clios, one show etc) in this city? Reviewing books I hardly come across any international awards at all. Is my agency to shitty or are awards a thing of the past?

Joined Ascend a couple years ago and didnt find it valuable in the first year since the local chapter wasn't super active. Thinking about rejoining. What does everyone else think about Ascend?

Where are you all from?!

I am from S.Korea! ^^

Biden wants law maker to send him covid 19 hate crime act to sign. There is finally admissions from the highest level of the government that hate crime against asians is no okay. I got really emotional after I read the article in bloomberg about it. We can finally have some justice in a country where people have often tried to downplay racism against asians. It's the first time that I cried in a while and I'm a guy 🤣

Definitely don’t see where the Asians are at in my office...

Does anyone have colors on their hair? I currently have caramel balayage on my hair and I want to get a little lighter ( grayish/ ash gray) for the summer. Do you guys think it’s still professional ?

Looking for job _senior tax associate in PA. Please let me know if there's opportunity available. (US West)

Thank you

Anyone from Seattle?

Where's all my asian friends at??

Anyone ever felt too Asian to fit in with non-Asians but not Asian enough to fit in with the Asians?

Feel like language is a huge barrier to me. I am so frustrated I can’t express my thoughts and happy hour is just unpaid torture

Any female fishes in Houston? I'm moving there soon and need some new friends.

Nine months in and already feeling so unmotivated. Busy season was tough but nonbusy time is even worse.

Which Big4 Firms in Texas provide the best chance for Asians to make partners/managing directors ?

Anyone else feeling pressure from Asian parents to find a significant other to get married and have kids?

Being Asian, do you feel that you need to be exceptionally good to get promotion?

hello! nice meeting you guys!

Hello ? 👋

Curious what your parents think about you working in Accounting? Know it's typical to grow up with Asian parents who always push you to get into the medical industry or engineering

Who’s your mentor/sponsor/coach? Other than firm designated. How you get yours and how you maintain your relationship with them