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Don’t overthink it. It’s totally normal to be selective about who you include as references because you don’t want to notify them you’re looking. I seriously doubt it will raise any red flags.

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This is really awful, OP. They have to know that some partners are vindictive at any associate for leaving. I would have pushed back, hard, on this.

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