If your colleague has a horrible wig would you say something? I’m talking synthetic blonde Hannah Montana and matted AF.

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I would definitely say something if I wanted to get reported to HR and make an enemy or a few

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Depending on how this conversation is received it can turn out …not so good. But maybe you can create a gentle approach for ex. if she compliments you on your hair you can slide in some suggestions then 😆

Be kind ….you don’t know what personal struggles people deal with like homelessness or depression which can contribute to these type of outward displays.

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The thing is I’m not saying this to be mean. She works for big law and she’s not homeless. I’m saying this because I’m worried she may be bullied because of it

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Are you guys friends? If so, yes. If not, no lol

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Would you say something if it was their hair and not a wig? Nope. So I would say no.

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Lmao nope. I'll tell them it's gorgeous and walk away cause her wig is not the business that pays me, lol.

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No! Tf? lol She knows what the hair on her head looks like. You gotta mind your business, baby love.

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If they are not your friend friend ...no...say nothing. That is their business.

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As a long time wig wearer, help a sista out. I personally only wear custom HH wigs that have textured as relaxed black hair. My wigs can be worn daily or long term. I also spend about $6000 for each wig. Not saying that to brag but to set the tone of, I don’t do BS

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I just came back to say 6k a wig …… righhhhtttttt. I have a bridge I want to sell you too. It’s too many virgin custom human hair options out here that don’t cost 6k. Like what is even happening? I feel like unless you’re a 60 year old woman who has been getting got for a long time, like 2 decades, this is a lie and an unnecessary one at that…

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Just stop looking at her. It's bothering you, but she wore it for a reason. You don't know her circumstances..leave it alone.

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I’m just here to say I really liked your description and I can easily visualize this wig.

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Not your business. She likes it I love it!

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No lol you'll have a new work enemy. I had to learn the hard way to stop volunteering to help people that are not my personal friends. When it comes to work say nothing.

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Ugh, just mind your business sis. I know it’s hard. But try. Unless you wanna make friends with Miss wig and get her to go wig shopping but that could take six months.

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Nope. Never. I stop trying to help folk out on a lot of things. Even those who ask. People easily get their feelings hurt even if they ask. I encourage and offer additional options and let them decide.

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Pathetic and mean-spirited.

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Girl she looking for a white man, let Hannah attract her Ivory king as she see fit.

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Depends on how close we are… if we the type to speak freely, then yes.

Maybe she likes how she looks. Don’t comment on someone’s appearance unless they invite you to.

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If you see me rocking a bad wig, please tell me nicely. That's just me though. Sometimes, I think my wig looks okay and it doesn't. 😊🙏🏿

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