I'm scared of regret – both staying in this unfulfilling job and making a risky jump to something new. How do you decide?

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Take the jump. At least you won’t say down the line I regret missing out on an opportunity. Regret eats your sleep up. And if it’s unfulfilling then there is no loss.

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I used to see a really great therapist who would work with me on my anxiety making decisions and tell me, “There are no wrong decisions; different choices just have different consequences.” He would also tell me that, as a lawyer, I have lots of options and if I chose something I don’t like, I could always leave and do something else.

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Flip a coin. When it’s in the air, your mind will have an outcome it wants and you’ll feel disappointed if you don’t get a certain outcome. That’s how you know what you want to do.

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Life’s too short, make the move! I’m on my 5th firm, each one has been better than the last but I’m sure there’s a better fit out there.

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