Is it a sign for me to break up with to my boyfriend? I’m starting to dread seeing him… I just don’t enjoy our time together and I do it out of obligation. I much rather be alone at home or with my female friends

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You DREAD seeing him? Yeah, it’s been over. Move on.

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Yes this is exactly when you break up with someone. You’re going on dates with other people and you don’t want to see him. Sounds like it’s over and he’s the last to know.

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Maybe just cheat on him for a bit and see if that helps?

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I didn’t say OP was obligated to do anything. She can go bump uglies with someone else if she wants.

Have you guys been dating for a while? Was there anything that triggered this?

Of course it is.

Is this something he can fix? You didn’t say WHY you dread it. If you once enjoyed your time together and now you don’t, what has changed?

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