I’ve only been at the company for 8 months and my manager and peers are ganging up on me and breathing down my neck. Any tips? Not sure if I should talk to HR about it?

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Thank you for letting me know!

protect yourself you may be out of a job as this is not good.

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Seems like there's more to the story. What are they ganging up on you about?

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Ganging up on the group chat still doesn't say what they're ganging up about. Is the context what they're ganging up about something to do with the quality of your work or is it something personal like you don't shower? Either way, I think you need to reflect on what their messages are and truly think of the problem is them or if the problem is you. If the problem is them, then I'd look for another job before I went to HR about any of this.

It sounds like you may be the problem here. HR will not help you. They are not on your team and won't do anything unless you have a lawsuit. What are they saying/doing to you specifically?

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