Just my two cents. People who say “my kid comes first” are just incapable of handling multiple projects. You think I ever say to my smaller client at worker, “my bigger client comes first”?

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Tbh, I would judge someone if they chose me over their kid.

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@Assistant 1, I completely understand and I admire your input. I’m just saying it doesn’t work for me because I’m a person myself as well and have needs too. There needs to be balance.

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Yeahh.. work and family matters are two completely different things. Hope that helps!

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Yeah, the handling of multiple projects verbiage didn't help. But if you've been with someone for awhile and their excuse not to support you in any way is a piano recital, it sounds like they're not invested and you should move on to someone who cares for you.

This is a dumb take, metaphorically or otherwise. It’s not about a lack of ability to multitask, it is a matter of PRIORITY. If you’re so selfish that you’re incapable of understanding that kids come first, feel sorry for your kid(s).

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Kids come first comment is more than multi tasking. For example , if someone wanted me to move in with them , that wouldn’t work if it impacted where my kids go to school etc

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My kid comes first only applies to dating. Yes that is law. However if you decide to get married biblically the man comes first woman second and children 3rd. Which means date someone that will take an interest at the well being of your children and everyone needs to know their place. Don't someone that doesn't know where they fall in line as well as their dependents.

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