Love when a toxic team member is miserable and negative to work with, then turns on the “everything is great!” And is all smiley when the higher ups are around.

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This is why I’m miserable and negative no matter who is around

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Maybe they’re a Gemini.

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Maybe they’re a childish baby who is only happy if they get their way and throws fits if they don’t.

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When I was a junior, I was a grouch. Then my creative partner met with me privately and said something along the lines of, “Hey, I just want to let you know that your negativity is getting to me. I know things aren’t perfect around here, but complaining about it won’t make it any better. Please be more positive, and I promise you’ll feel better, too.”

Something clicked in my head when she said this, and I made an effort to be more positive. It has helped my career ever since.

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It’s not so much negativity, as much as this person being two faced and a snake - talking about other people, side chatting CDs and hiding decks so they can protect their work

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