Managing Partner is a 60-something white male who came up in his career with a stay at home wife, made gobs of money, and is shocked to learn that his firm with a 1920 hr min (more to bonus or make partner) is not actually a great source of work life balance. If he gave you the time to listen and take suggestions, what would you want to say/suggest?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Related Posts

Hi guys how's work life balance in EY India in technology line? What is the average working hours during normal times and peak season? I would be really glad if someone can help me with this! Thanks!

like

Are FAANG companies really the place to be for SWE’s? I want to work for one but I’m worried about culture & work/life balance.

like

Got an offer for a sales applications manager role at Cisco and a Strategic AE role at Amazon - both are basically the same pay (130~ base, 220 OTE)
I don’t have any friends at either company so I was curious if anyone has experience and can shed some light on culture/ work life balance to help me make a decision? Thanks for the help guys!

like

Hi, Is it good to join Salesforce for Technical Consultant role (YOE - 3.2 years) ?
I checked with few of my connections, they saying I will be mostly allocated to Salesforce industries (Vlocity) project. Please suggest about the team structure and work life balance for this role.
and also in future, is it possible to apply for IJP in Salesforce ?

Please provide your thoughts on this.
Thanks

Salesforce

like

Hi Folks ,
I got offer from Thoughtworks and Allstate with almost same compensation .Which one is good in terms of WLB , learning and Job Security ?

like

Hello,
My skillset: Oracle Identity and Access management, Java , YOE:3.5

My current CTC is 8lpa, i have an offer from VFISLK 11lpa, and expecting offer from Accenture 12lpa.

Can Wipro match the offer?

Considering wlb and job security, i can stay in Wipro if they match the offer.

like

I am Offered 29.5fixed by PwC for SA (L2). Currently on 25fixed. Should I join ? In terms of WLB.! My current employer on fishbowl shows Deloitte but have left Deloitte a year back. Currently in a firm with good WLB but PWFH is a big win for me that PwC is offering.
Any guidance or fist hand experience sharing is highly appreciated.

like

How's work life balance at Apple? More specifically for a PM role

like

Can someone tell me more about citrin cooperman NJ office? What’s the culture and work life balance situation there?

like

I got an offer from Audible? How is the work culture and WLB? Does Audible also has PIP culture?

TC:240 K
Level: L6

like

Hi Fishes, Kindly suggest pls. Sap functional with 6+ yoe. Cctc 8.2 fixed. Got offer from Accenture 11.5 fixed and Deloitte India 12 fixed. Which one to choose considering wlb, hike et. Accenture Deloitte India

like

Has anyone here ever worked for Rolls Royce? Specifically in logistics? What’s the company like? Benefits? Work/life balance? Etc. any info is helpful!

like

Hi Fishes,

Do you have any idea about T-Systems like project, wlb , benefit & job-security.
Please Need your input!

like

Hello everyone,

I have 2 offers from Capgemini and Hexaware from Pune location(6.2 yrs of experience).
The CTC difference is not much . My tech stack is vmware, vRA,vRO.
Capgemini - Professional ll/ B2 position
Hexaware -System Analyst at G5
Could anyone suggest me which one to join in terms of
-Growth and opportunities,
- What would be hikes for these annually,
- Work life balance.

Thanks.

like

ZS people who have moved to Iqvia after working with 4-5 years at ZS. How is your experience with Iqvia, in terms of growth, learning, WLB etc.?

like

What’s the wlb like at VCA?

like

Larsen & Toubro Infotech Received an offer from LTI as SPECIALIST -data science ? How are the projects , learning opportunities and WLB ? Can somebody please share their experience as Data science specialist at LTI?Larsen & Toubro InfotechEY DeloitteZS Associates PwC

like

1. Can anyone please share their views on WLB and growth at EXL Analytics division?
2. Range of salary for Lead Assistant Manager Position?
3. Also, does the company provide any on-site opportunity as well?

likefunny
like

More Posts

Anyone make the exit from B4 to external recruiting for an agency? Like Robert Half but smaller. I’m talking with one now and am considering it since I like the commission aspect. What is it like / how tough is it?

likefunny

Hey guys, recently got offer from Airbus , they mentioned about onsite training and cost involved in case I plan to leave the org any time soon. Could someone please throw some light on this 😊

likefunny

Hello guys, I wanna know the working culture of Yash. Is their will be a lot of work pressure at Yash,Indore? What about the job security?

I am Offered 29.5fixed by PwC for SA (L2). Currently on 25fixed. Should I join ? In terms of WLB.! My current employer on fishbowl shows Deloitte but have left Deloitte a year back. Currently in a firm with good WLB but PWFH is a big win for me that PwC is offering.
Any guidance or fist hand experience sharing is highly appreciated.

like

Anyone file for divorce without a lawyer if both parties are consenting? How does it work when you don’t have any joint assets (separate bank accounts, no house) and no kids? Married <5 years

like

How do you incorporate warm up/bell ringer problems so that kids actually complete the problems and not just use that time to socialize?

like

Anyone with anxious attachment tendencies? Going through a breakup and I keep thinking about how I pushed him away and then am down on myself, replaying memories in my mind. At the end of the day, I think we were a bad match from the beginning and misaligned, but so hard not to beat myself over my anxious attachment during my relationship

like

Hello Friends,
Can an employee get Promotion or hike during Notice Period ?

Thanks in Advance for the answer.

like

HELP! I've been working at a job for a month and I like the job but l've recently received and off for a new job making close to 30k more. I don't want to pass this opportunity up then again I just started this job and don't to burn a bridge. Any advice???

Hi Chicago 🐠 - my apartment lease ended and I’m looking for a new place. I’m also hunting for jobs on the west coast so I may need to move before my new lease finishes. Prop agent says...contd.

like
like

Looking for a job change. 9 YOE as BA/PM. Can anyone provide referrals? I can DM details or email/LinkedIn. Appreciate your help!

like

Does Comcast pay any allowance or provide any additional facilities for work from home? Eg: paying for internet? Comcast

like

Anyone want to swap Airbnb style their miami /Miami Beach place for my 17th floor chelsea doorman building near the highline ? Looking to do an upcoming weekend soon

like

How's work life balance at Apple? More specifically for a PM role

like

Married ppl in your 20s/30s, do your inlaws expect you to greet them for major holidays and their birthdays?

like

Join any dam company in world but dont join lala company HCL. Worked there for 20 days only last yr and 1year later i got my relieving letter after multiple tortures of legal notices for not serving notice period even though when they themselves released me.. from 160k to 0 that i paid them. I could easily sue them for harrasment but i didn't wanted to get involved in useless sh** and waste my time and energy .. BEWARE OF HCL

like

Any insight on Proskauer’s NYC L&E practice group? Good place for associates?

like

Really looking forward to “Operation Warp Speed”

like

Additional Posts in Working Parents in Law

Is anyone else worried about screen time or strict about it? I'm a bit torn about it and curious of everyone else's thoughts.

like

I just wanted to take a quick moment to say that you are all doing a great job with this ridiculous, unprecedented juggling act of trying to be a parent, teacher, lawyer and human. Hang in there!

likeuplifting

How many married professionals with young families are just sticking it out “for the kids”? Marriage is very dead and has been for a while. Young kids 4 and 1. My wife and I don’t fight, but share 0 interests outside of the kids and can’t stand to be around each other. I’m so ready to leave… I just can’t bear the thought of doing it to my children even though another part of me feels like wife and I would both be better parents if our lives were separate. Anyone else done a similar analysis?

like

Biglaw parents, where do you choose to live and why? Somewhere close to work to avoid commute and spend more time with kids? Suburbs?

like

Some people mentioned au pairs... tell me more! Why did you like/not like it, if you did the au pair thing?

like

Should I stay or should I go? Hoping to get some insight from those that went before me. I am a 6th year call working at a top20 firm in private M&A. Two kids and am in the position (continued below)

Do you pay out of pocket on insurance premiums at your firm? My wife may leave her job to stay home and we’re on her insurance. My firm told me we’re $750/pay period or $18k/yr. that sounds absurd.

likehelpful

If you could go back and start over would you still choose this path? Or would you choose a different career and/or a different time to have children? I accidentally became a working parent in law so while I love my job and my children I don't think I would have planned it quite like this.

like

Insurance Defense Associate new to group. Just finished first year on the defense side after 6 years on the Plaintiff side, joined 3 weeks before lockdown. WFH with 6 and 2 year old. While billing 2k in a year with kids at home all day is nuts, you will not get better balance in a small pltff firm. Small firm partners are allergic to WFH, and can't afford to be flexible with when an associate gets to their work. The support of a larger firm is what has kept me alive this past year.

like

Sometime I feel like I'm operating at lower capacity than during the height of Covid trying to navigate billables and no childcare/remote school. Anyone else feel this way? Are we just burnt out from all the working nights and weekend in 2020/2021?

like

Last night my 9yo said, “wow mom, Idina Menzel is 48 but she looks way younger than you!” (I am 38.) Then I put makeup on this morning and she said, “well, you look nice but you still look worn out...

likefunny

(Especially those of you with young children) how do you make time to exercise/be active?

like

Does anyone manage without having a nanny? Kids age 0-10

like

Graduated law school, passed the bar, and started my job last summer. My wife and I got pregnant with our first sooner than we expected, and we're due in June. Any general tips/advice?

Is anyone willing to share if your firm offers egg freezing without a fertility diagnosis as a benefit? We are trying to expand our benefits and would love to be able to say that others in the industry are already doing this. Thanks!

like

How do you manage the constant school cancellations? Do I need a nanny in addition to daycare?

like

Brand new (like, just-had-a-kid new) mom here. Life seems manageable with the baby sleeping much of the time. It gets worse from here doesn’t it? I’m scared 😱😱😱

like

Anybody get divorced as a young-ish associate with little kids? I think I'm on that path and really struggling

like

Trying to be really understanding about coworkers with no children feeling stressed during the holiday season, but it's hard not to ask if they'd prefer to go home to my sick kid, frustrated spouse and dirty house instead of their empty apartment where they have a flat screen TV and a beer waiting. How do you keep sane?

like

For parents with school-age kiddos (kindergarten up), what do you do for childcare? Thinking about giving up our nanny, but worried about juggling days off, sick days, and summer break.

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal