My 1 year old son has inguinal Hernia surgery tomorrow. I know the procedure itself is common and simple but we are terrified nonetheless. Anyone had to go through this for their child and would like to share their experience? Much appreciated.

I'm going from working at a non IT industry to an IT firm. As an introvert I've faced a lot of difficulty in my career... Now since I'm also shifting to another industry completely, I'm feeling very insecure about my life at work. Please give me tips on how to make friends and be in the good books of the managers.

Are the ideas that hit you right away ever better than the ideas that come through hours of banging your head against the wall with your partner?

I just started training with United HealthGroup for Medicare. I have previous experience in Medicaid-- quite a different role, but similar. I'm so nervous about how complex Medicare can be. Any suggestions or advice? I'm not exactly a dumb-dumb but nor am I the sharpest knife in the tool box.

Anyone else exhausted from the last few weeks?

Best hotel in NYC with a decent gym?

How do you determine whether your inability to get out of bed in the mornings is due to depression or mere avoidance of all the crushing work and stress that awaits you? Still WFH and now beginning to get worried at how late I’m getting out of bed these last few weeks and feeling completely unmotivated to do anything.

Fellow fasting fish, how do you maintain energy when we can’t have coffee or water? I’ve been cracking windows, showering first thing, and using certain essential oils 😅 trying not to yawn on these morning video calls!

To do an ERA or not before transfer is the question. My clinic said currently the recommendation is to only do an ERA with multiple transfer fails, but I’ve read about ERA’s for those with recurrent pregnancy loss as well. Anyone go through this experience?

Does anyone here do OTF for weight loss? 29F, need to lose ~50lbs and have been doing IF, low carb, high protein diet. Wondering if OTF is enough to get me started. Need to get into an exercise routine. I need the motivation of a class, group etc and don’t have the motivation to workout alone in a gym. TIA!

Whoever said bumble bbfs was great couldn’t have been more right. It’s weird I’ve l been confident in how I look in the last few years but my personality and likability was put into question but instantly I seem to be receiving the friendship attention I like, 50+ likes by 4am on the first day, signed up at 2am. It’s kind of nice to make brand new friends without having a connection or a class together. Old friends and friends or friends sometimes benchmark you and don’t view the new you

I might get roasted for asking such a basic question but - how much do you budget for eating out ($ amount or % of budget)?

Pre pandemic I was traveling 5 days a week and just used left over per diem on the one night I went out with friends at home. During covid I stayed home. Now that I’m fully vaccinated and are many of my friends they want to go out to eat/drink. During covid I moved from a LCOL to here so I’m experiencing delayed sticker shock at the prices. Any tips?

How do you handle if both j1 and j2 offer health insurance or 401k? Do you decline if they’re the through the same provider?

“Who cares if it doesn’t work! You have to sell the vision!”

The setup. Recent trial where OC was newly minted and should have referred this case out due to the complexity. OC asked both the treating doctor along with a doctor being used as an expert witness this question.
“Isn’t it true that if a person dies in their sleep, they won’t realize it until morning”
It was then I knew the jury would rule in my favor. Total shitshow.

Is there anyone here that is a physician advisor? If so, how do you like it?

I made a joke about my ex getting hit by a car
2 weeks later it actually happened
To be honest, I don't really care

I recently joined a company after being self employed. I’m on hubs’s health insurance. We have no kids. It’s United healthcare. The company offers United as health insurance. What’s the best way to compare plans? I have not been in this situation before so apologies in advance if this is a dumb question.

Parents... please control your children. Screaming kids are awful.

How to deal with a relationship trauma? Especially when your ex has moved on.

This post is an alert message for anyone joining the Johnson & Johnson EMEA account for SAP & had Rakesh Sharma for their Manager round.

He is nothing less than a con man & will promise you a lot to make you join the account. After that he will put you in testing projects. If you ask for a release, he will either not release you or release with a very bad rating and influence other project managers to not take you into their projects.

You will be left with no choice other than leaving TCS.

Advice for someone having their first annual review? I have been well exceeding my role and am going to negotiate for a higher pay raise.

Today is joining day. Nothing happened. Onboarding is said to be virtual but no link was received. Any one else having different experience?

Does anyone else feel that calling some minority SA hires “diversity fellows” and the like is somewhat of a dog whistle? If top firms were really committed to DEI, wouldn’t they just hire more unrepresented SAs rather than making them advertise that they were hired as a part of some woke initiative?

Anyone have any negative secondment experiences? If so, what made it negative?

PwC India and PwC US

Which is better?
What are the advantages of joining PwC US.

Please help me to understand it

🚀How much salary range for VP - K grade in bnym ( Bank of New York Mellon) technology department? Skills - Java microservices Expr - 13+ yr

@bny Mellon technology

For us, what’s the best big four firm to work for and why?

What professional organizations are you apart of & do you feel that they contribute greatly to your career path?

Shooting my shot, anyone up for a chat with a M🐠, lonely night and tipsy. Let’s see where it leads...

I got an offer for deloitte Pune doj 20 june ?? Anyone reporting there on 20th ? And are we having dlaunch event in Pune office idk what should I choose virtual onboarding or physical at Pune location? HR is also irresponsible she don’t even know bs bolri h office jana pdega and I’m hearing there is no space and she’s telling me they’re not gonna deliver laptop to home? Please rply

Guys there are multiple scrum master openings across organisations .I am on notice period and getting atleast 1 call daily.

A sleepy summer Sunday watching the end of a great test cricket match, grabbing a beer with friends and glorious weather. Honestly it is the first day since covid that life feels normal for me

Question about my side hustle - I'm an Instagram wellness blogger just getting started and at about 2K followers. Don't want to have all my eggs in one basket and looking into expanding to another platform. Weighing the following options : basic website, newsletter, podcast (podcast would complement or replace IG Live interviews that I currently do).

Any advice on the best next step?

I am a recent graduate with a master’s in geropsychology in Central Florida. This being a new start for me and not really knowing anyone in this field. Is there anyone that could give some advice on how to meet like individuals that could help me get started with my new career? Thank you

Hi Everyone,
I have a query. Not sure if this is the right forum for it, but let me just ask it here.
I have completed my B.Tech. on 2020 and got a job in an MNC with a 3.8LPA, but due to COVID, the onboarding was delayed to Feb 2021. During this time, I had enrolled myself for a distance M.Tech. degree.
I recently joined a new company with a 10.1LPA a month back.
Just two weeks back, my M.Tech. degree is completed.
Should I have some increment in my new company as to my M.Tech. completion?

My #1 peeve about agencies is the old school habit of emailing everything. The most efficient offices leverage task/mgmt platforms to manage workflows/bandwidth. Crowded inboxes of nonsense = WASTE.

What do you think a social worker with 8 years of experience should be making in Santa Barbara, CA? I make like 50k a year and I feel like I could potentially be making more if I leave my current job. Just want to know for sure before I start looking since it's a risky time to be leaving work. TIA.