My director just spoke negatively about me to our client (they said I “ramble” when I gave a presentation-which to their point I did) but felt a little disrespected. Don’t think my director knew I was in the room but need some help navigating the situation. Do I talk to them ? Let it slide ?

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I’d for sure call it out in a respectful way. Hey, Want you to know I’m working on my presentation skills and happy to take any notes to improve, but calling it out to the client definitely made me a bit more self conscious now.”

Then I’d start looking for another job. That’s not a director I wanna work for

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You hiring lol

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I would speak to them. No reason to denigrate a team member. It doesn’t help anyone, and doesn’t instill confidence in the team.
Then I would also work on tightening up your presentation skills.

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I’d mention it to them. Don’t make it a big thing, just pull them aside and say you were in the room and would appreciate not being thrown under the bus.

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Had the same issue happened to me. What SC1 said is 👌🏼.

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Let it slide, don't internalize and move forward with your working relationship because that's all it is at the end of the day

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True, but need to prepare my self if they get defensive when confronted

They’re absolutely going to get defensive. That’s what people do when they get caught doing things. They feel embarrassed and ashamed and that often comes out as anger. However, if you can gracefully point it out and not blow it up into a huge thing, I think you’ll win way more points in the long term. You’re also much more likely to get an apology once they’re done being defensive and you’ll get better feedback on what you can do to work on your presentation skills. I know it’s much easier said than done. I’d want to read them for filth too if it were me. But again, you’ve got the upper hand here. Make the most of it.

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SC1 has it dialed. Don’t take any shit like that regardless of title

I’m very “cool heads will prevail” will let it simmer a little-feel a bit hot headed

Clam up next preso, see how your CD likes that.

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