My fiancé and I make about 250K gross income yearly. We are looking at houses in New York in the 500-550K range. We plan to put down around 40K. We each pay $500 a month on our cars but my lease is up next year and I will be buying a used car with my savings (separate from emergency fund). We each have about 3-6 months of expenses saved for an emergency. I really think we will be ok but my fiancé is concerned. Is this too much of a stretch financially?

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You’re more than ok

We have $350-400k gross income and buying $900k house

And a kid

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Depends…Mine in North Carolina is about $1,600/month per child

Just to make you feel better

We have gross income of 250k, buying a 850k home, and a 75k car with 20k cc debt overall and a baby on the way.

Yolo

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Why. Are you carrying credit card debt?

You're fine. I'd suggest seeing if going a bit higher on the down payment is worth it but otherwise this is a financially sound purchase. Plus you have emergency funds saved up and you have reasonable recurring monthlies. You have any other expensive monthly expenses and/or hobbies? I'm assuming you're talking about upstate NY?I dunno anywhere in/near NYC where you can find a 500k house that isn't complete dogs**t.

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Hey that's funny. I live right across the border from Rockland county in Bergen County NJ. My backyard touches the state line. Pretty area. One consideration for Orange and Rockland: If you're planning on having kids in the near future, you may want to factor in the cost of private school down the road. The public school systems there aren't great afaik. But you should be fine regardless with your HHI.

I think you’ll be alright. My partner and I bought a house for $1m with 20% down when we were only making $350k and now we’re making $500k.

The house will be nice because it stabilizes your cash outflow for housing while your salary in theory should continue to grow as you become more experienced and senior in your role.

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How much is your take home and how much will your potential combine expenses?

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Oh boy. Way too much cash outflow for my liking, I would not do that.

When our combined gross income was $325k we put down $200k for a $550k house, and we didn’t have a car payment. That gave us enough cash inflow to invest elsewhere and not getting bogged down by all the payments.

Haha maybe true, but I don’t need investments to be exhilarating. I use some return on my investments to get fun cars and motorcycles, and have my fun that way 🙃

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You’re fine, but why have 2 different emergency funds? Just do 1 and use the remaining cash for something else (unless I misinterpreted this)

We both have aging parents and we are the only child on both sides. I guess it’s more of a “if shit hits the fan”security blanket type thing.

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