My team has started ignoring my messages. I’m not sure what I did; I’ve been getting good feedback on my performance, I don’t message excessively often, and I don’t think I’ve done anything to cause social discomfort. The project is busy, but honestly workloads have been lighter than they used to be because we brought in additional resources, so that doesn’t explain the shift in communication styles. I used to feel like a useful team member but now I feel like an annoyance. What should I do?

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Schedule 15 mins with manager directly. Start convo with “hey, out of curiosity I have noticed a shift in communication recently. Is this because of bandwidth changes or should I do something to adjust how I’m communicating?”

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Thanks, this is helpful

How long has the team has been ignoring your messages?

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A few days or so. They reply occasionally to direct messages but more often than not my input in a group chat goes completely unacknowledged, even important questions

Ask them just like you asked here.

How should I do that? Just approach my manager directly? I don’t want to come across as whiny or demanding

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