My team is falling apart. Initially, we had 2 associates, 1 VP, and 1 Director. The director left, and now they are waiting to backfill the role. My VP thinks I’m not ready for the role, but I have an offer at another place. An associate is about to leave, and so am I! So why do I feel so bad?

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Small teams create a sense of community, even if it isn’t a healthy environment. In my limited experience, I see it all the time (and have experience it myself). But there is emotional space to be ready and excited for a better opportunity, and feel sadness/guilt leaving your current team.

Congrats on the new role OP!

Don't feel bad. Its easy to feel that way when everyone jumps ship but you have to do what is best for you.

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