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My elder brother (2 year elder) and jobless from 8 years (don't want to do anything just sleep all day - he is also a software engineer).

I have to take care of his everything thing which includes his health insurance, his clothes, his daily foods, and other basic things. If i don't do then my mother is getting angry. Also, he Don't respect me and bad mouth about me with our relatives that i am not doing anything for him.

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Thoughts re. Whether 145k at insurance defense Am Law 200 firm in so cal is average comp for associate with 4-5 years experience in insurance defense? TIA.

Anyone have insider info on what adam&eveDDB, Mother London, and Uncommon look for in planners? Are they looking for awards? Thought leadership? Looking to make a move and want to take a shot at those 3!

2 friends from college just stayed up with me for 4 hours to make last minute edits to my horrid Wharton essays. Admit or ding I’m grateful to have friends like this in my life.

Sometimes it feels like customer service is just trying to calm down a large, angry toddler.

I am expecting an offer from Master Card for Senior Software Engineer position in O Fallon MO. Please let me know what kind of base salary I can expect with 11 yrs experience . I don’t wanna undersell but also trying to avoid being aggressive but quote a decent number which will be achievable. Any suggestions will be appreciated. Is 125k $ base a fair value for or I can pitch higher? They have a 15 to 20 % bonus on top of base pay and a 10% match on 401k which the recruiter keep highlighting.

Anyone have feedback on in house attorney positions with Mercury Insurance?

I am done trying to pretend everything is fine at work. The higher ups on the team kept asking if I’m doing anything fun for the weekend during video calls. I felt the pressure to make something up but I just can’t. I’ve been struggling with depression, loneliness, anxiety with immigration and the fact that I might be out of work soon cuz my visa is expiring. I’m thousands of miles away from my family and I just want everything to stop. But when my manager kept asking in front of everyone am I

My gf and me call each other everytime we have free time. However lately she seems disinterested in phone time. She never initiates calls anymore and she tells me she wants to hang up in the middle of the day and not right before bedtime. We live a 4 hour drive apart. And I told her this is like living together from a distance, because I put her on the house speakers. What can I do to keep her engaged?

Generally curious how many companies offer phone reimbursement? My last gig did not but the current one does. Legally it seems, all employers are required to do so if we use our phone in literally any capacity (video call, slack, teams, emails etc). How prevalent is the issue of not reimbursing phone dues?

I would appreciate your perspective.
I am currently working on my MBA in a professional evening and weekend program at a highly accredited university. I am thinking about transferring to a much smaller private online program, specifically because they offer a concentration in organizational health, which directly builds on my doctoral research. Does great depth and specialization outweigh the value of a highly respected generalist degree?

How is ProcDna firm in terms of wlb and monetary benefits?

So after you max your investment accounts (401K, IRÁ, emergency savings. etc) what do you do next?

A little context: 24M, started in the pandemic, moved back home and paid off my student loans.

Do I move out? Can I start spending on myself? Am I missing anything from a saving perspective?

Apologies in advance if this comes off entitled/arrogant, really just looking for some advice and wanted to give as clear a picture as possible.

Poll on general attitudes towards open relationships? I’m in one and find that some folks are totally non-judgmental about it, while others are so vicious/rude about it. Curious about your opinions! I understand that every open relationship is different, and each couple defines their own arrangement/rules. For context, ours is a passive one that’s hardly acted on, but we both have Grindr and meet guys for fun on the very odd occasion (whether together or apart). If you’re in one, describe yours!

I think it’s over with my SO of 3 years. He tells me he loves me and wants to work things through but has lied to me several times in the past - some which were the same mistake three times. He knows he needs professional help (he’s also on antidepressants and has PTSD) but I don’t know how I can trust him again. Feeling completely broken - cannot believe the situation we’re in. I’m so sad my heart is breaking and I don’t know what to do

What are the bands at sigma healthcare

I am trying to do a backdoor roth but have about 60k sitting in traditional IRAs. I also currently live in NYC, would it be best to rollover everything into 401k, then do backdoor?

What funds are you investing in your 401K? Also, if I change the funds in the 401K by moving all current holdings into another fund, does it count as capital gain since it would sell old and buy new?

Does anyone have any connections or referrals for a healthcare travel recruiter company? Looking at Aya, AMN, MedTravelers but open to others!

The death of my best friend in combat will forever haunt me, no matter how hard I want to accept it and let it go. I've been remembering every day since I came back. It's so hard to deal with this on my own.

When lateraling to another defense firm, is it necessary to show billable hours at current firm?

How much is the variable pay out for L9 employee if max of 27% is 450000, how much can we expect.

Is it possible to get a remote job in the US but be based in Canada? Not sure of the legalities but the salaries here are much lower than those in the US...

I have 3 YOE as a Software Developer. I currently work as a React/Node developer making 87k per year (I know that is pretty low, my manager will admit it) He has made it clear that I am the most skilled developer on the team, and I am getting promoted to Senior Dev. I would like to know what I should be shooting to make? I really like my job and ideally don't want to move companies, but would like some realistic expectations for what I should be earning.

Can i get some idea on what are current market trends for candidates with 5 yrs of SOC experience applying for cybersecurity roles like security officer or GRC related as well as consultant roles?

My wife of seven years and I went to a talk on Marriage in Islam recently. It was given by Imam Alaa ElSayed. I generally have a low tolerence for mullah/moulvi types, but this man was the real deal.

Looking for a referral to MBB firms - thanks! 🤝

Any references for good tutoring services for the bar? Repeat taker and want to make sure I pass this time. I’ve already looked at the tutoring that barbri etc offer and I am looking for a person/service which isn’t part of a course. TIA!

I’ve been at a job for a few months and hate it - partners set unrealistic deadlines, micromanage, and create work that truly is not necessary/push urgency when there is no real urgency. I had other offers prior to accepting this job that may still be options, and going back to my old job (for a pay cut) might also be an option. I can’t tell if this is just burnout, growing pains, or just an untenable work environment. Would you ride it out for a year at new job or pursue other options? HELP!

Guys, If salary & all perks are equal then which place is best for job working.
Ahmedabad or Goa, in terms of living, quality life, opportunities etc.

Please sincere replies.

Recommendations for an Orlando hotel? Family wants to stay off site for Disney

I have a job offer in Australia and the company is offering to apply for a TSS visa for me. But they can't give me any idea on timeline. I've heard anything from a month to 9 months. Has anyone here gone through this and knows how long it would take during Covid times?

I have a flight tomorrow at 11PM. I can’t wait to get to the lounge at 5 and get HAMMERED with all that free booze. Hope I’m not denied boarding

Can science and religion coexist together? If you are religious, how do you handle intersections between the two?

Bought shares in AFI and ARGO with plans to sell them this year to buy a house
Sell now before they crash even more?
Or put off buying a house untill the market bounces back?

Not sleeping bc I don’t want to wake up for another week of the stressful, meaningless sameness. Please share how you carry on.

How long were you an SAE before promoting to AS?

Thoughts on the following neighborhoods: 1) area south of Chatfield Lake; 2) Roxborough Park. We are a family with a middle school aged child (and late 30s). Thanks!

What should be my minimum package with 8 yoe?

Hi All,
Please give me 11 likes to start direct chat.

please suggest which option would be wiser
yoe-6.9
Tech stack- Java full stack developer

Robert Bosch Bangalore-24 lpa
Nagarro-27.5 lpa

Please help me with your suggestion.

Hi 🐠🐋🐟,

Off track topic!!
I am starting to learn DSA along with C & C++ , looking for coding college.
If anybody is interested to join do please let me know.
Thanks.

Hello everyone,
Currently I am working as a PHP and Wordpress developer and having experience of 1.5 Years.

I want to switch my career and want to go with cloud.

Could you please guide me what steps or road map should I follow.

Thanks in advance.

Hello fishes,

Can anyone suggest an appropriate salary for education sales professional with 8 years experience.

How much time it takes to get offer letter in Infosys after interview in general . There Bcg process and other checks . Any idea ?

Hi everyone,

Will there be any impact on indian IT sector or any international investment banking firms due to on going Evergrande crisis ?

Any thoughts over this ?

Does anyone have an idea of REBIT .
is it good enough to join and do they pay good@?
My Hr Round is scheduled for tomorrow.
I already have an offer of 19Lpa will they match it.
(YOE 4 Information security)

Got an offer from Evalueserve, Gurgaon.
Current Role - Lead Business Analyst (AM in EY) - 12 LPA - 7.5 YOE - Domain - HR & Finance
Questions -
1) How is the work culture in Evalue as compared to EY India?
2) They are asking to join within 1 month, can this be extended to 2 months which is NP at EY?
3) I have asked for 17 LPA fixed. So, how abt the salary structure over there? Negotiations are still happening. So, how much can they give.
4) Work life balance is imp, so how abt the same?

What is the best SAP HCM skill is making

Have 5+ years of experience in TCS , currently working in PreSales role , after my PGDM... Looking for options in Pre Sales , Have knowledge on cloud too.... Any similar openings...

Hi All, I am thinking to take a career break for about couple of years due to childcare. I need to know the possibilities of getting a job in testing field after this much gap..

Hi All,

Can you please help me choose between citi bank and bny Mellon please?

Both are offering same CTC 21lpa for 7 years experience in Unix, devops

What is Conveyance Allowance, Medical Allowance and Advance statutory Bonus in Cognizant offer letter.
Are these paid along with Monthly salary

Any idea how is chennai Daimler organization is ?
Joining as Senior business analyst

HAVE anyone had two full-time positions. How difficult would it be to work if both are remote.