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My elder brother (2 year elder) and jobless from 8 years (don't want to do anything just sleep all day - he is also a software engineer).

I have to take care of his everything thing which includes his health insurance, his clothes, his daily foods, and other basic things. If i don't do then my mother is getting angry. Also, he Don't respect me and bad mouth about me with our relatives that i am not doing anything for him.

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Your weakness is that you feel bad for him. Unless he has physical and mental issues you should stop supporting him. Even Animals kick out their children after a certain age. Just give him a minimal allowance and a timeline by which he starts sustaining himself. There is no other way .

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Bro, please move to someother place for few months..having this mental pressure will degrade ur health and positive vibes that u carry..
I cant say anything about ur mom.. he is her child too.. soo they always want their kids to be happy..
Ur brother needs to understand that u r helping him for most of the things..Bad mouthing u will give him happiness for some time.. but what if u get irritated and dont help him further.. he is the one who needs to suffer.. not only ur brother.. ur parents will suffer too.. just because of overthinking and sadness that u are not helping him and also he is staying calm without work.
Rather than stopping helping him futher.. try sending 50 % of the amount that he requires and say that u r facing some issues.. atleast then he might change as the money u send wont be sufficient to him..
Being too good is too bad these days...

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I am tired of all this. Can someone suggested what to do for him?

I don't want to become bad for him and wanted him to work atleast.

He always demean me by saying a lot of thing.

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Seems a case of schizophrenia! Consult a psychiatrist and he'll be fine. I have my close ones who went through this

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If ur bro has no medical issue,, then leave him and ur mom

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Take care bro

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