Person A is less cuter than person B, how do you explain that if person B is into you but person A is not? I want a scientific explanation.

29F. Willing to relocate anywhere in US/UK or Canada. Looking for someone practicing, open minded and seeking a serious relationship. Happy to chat to see if this is a mutual match.

Moving to Seattle soon. I could use dates or friends 😅

The only reason I ever pursued casual sex (a couple times when I was 17-19) was to not get my heart broken. It always sucked and was so boring. I don’t understand when people say they want sex with no emotions. It’s the best part.

Need some rippers to play with, need 2.0 kds

27M
Any single F from hyd?

Any single female from Kolkata ?

What is this bowl for? Married but looking? Success story?

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

Genuine question - why do people slide into DMs on here? Why would you spend time trying to get to know someone when there’s like a 1% chance you’re in the same geographical area and would have mutual interest in each other? Is it not better to spend your time on tinder or bumble to find people that are guaranteed to be nearby if you’re bored?
Edit: I mean DMs that are not platonic/networking 🙃

Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks

Ladies of fishbowl, question. Girl says she wants to get drinks as friends, but is persistent in getting your number to text. Overthinking or is there something behind this? I’m also good friends with her current landlord/roommate.

Any desi f looking for a white knight to save her from an arranged marriage?

Hello 👋🏾I'm a matchmaker and I have a few clients I'm trying to match:
- 49M, real estate developer, divorced - 1 child, LA (fitness is high on his list). - 37F, marketing manager, LA
Please note that everyone I work with is a Black Professional who is over 28, educated with at least a Bachelors degree, and earns over $75k. Feel free to DM me on IG @tenneshawood

Thoughts on convincing gf to stay? 27M dating 28F for ~1.5 years. We knew each other in HS and reconnected during the pandemic. Everything was so connected, compatible and hot, and we planned a life together. We thought we met the loves of our lives. We moved to NYC in January. Lost intimacy and connection. She’s unwilling to work on things. Such a genuinely talented and beautiful woman, but has trust issues and depression from being overworked. Thoughts on convincing vs surrendering / leaving?

28M moved to Munich. Any F from DE or EU interested to connect please DM.

For all the men out there, where are you finding girls to take on dates? Is it mostly online dating? Mutual friends? Coworkers?

SF! Anybody wanna meet?

F Miami, 26 let’s talk 😉

Who’s around tonight for a fun time? M searching for F

Any ACCA students register for an exam using the new website? No combo of dates or locations ever works under 'Add Exam'.

Anybody interested in these billion dollar cuts to HUD? How will that effect the audit industry for LIH?

What are your thoughts on a staff having a nice luxury car/suv? I’m thinking about buying a 2017 X3.

Is Canopy tax better than the other practice management tools in the market?

Anyone else job hunting during busy season?

Anyone here at Mck / (Implementation specifically)? I’m interested in an open Mck implementation role and would like to have a quick chat. Cheers

Hey,
I am at a crossroads where I need to decide between a generic program manager role or specialise in digital marketing? Need advise on how to decide! What has betting future growth??
I have an experience of 5 years

Anyone can let me know after an offer letter any other letter do we get from TCS ?

Hi Fishes, Question about product metrics.
You are product manager of instagram in 2018 and launching reels feature. What success metrics will you choose and what will be your expected adoption on launch.
Similar que: launching status on whatsapp.
Any idea how to answer this. How to decide benchmark numbers etc??

Hi there! Any Guidehouse fish open to chatting about a role and possibly putting in a referral?

Can’t wait to move to Dallas area. Flower Mound is likely our first choice. Getting out of Chicago for better schools without dominant unions, low taxes, and better public safety

Does anyone else here have a hospitality management degree? Do you think it was worth it?

I keep watching Schitt's Creek reruns now and then. It makes me feel warm and mushy, but also super lonely. So tired of being perpetually single. I know it's been posted about here a bunch of times before but it still sucks. Venting and knowing you're not alone, helps a tiny bit. =) Also does anybody else thing Patrick is essentially just a 'too good to be true' fantasy boyfriend Dan Levy dreamed up and put on the show?

Anyone Boston next week?

Has anyone ever been in a mostly platonic relationship? I don’t like to label myself much, but I don’t really like intimacy and don’t really like romance. Some people would say I’m asexual/aromantic, but unless that too is a spectrum, I don’t think I fit squarely into that group. As I get older, I’m realizing I’m feeling very lonely. It would be nice to find someone, but have it be platonic (any gender/sex). It’s weird, I know. It’s hard to articulate as well. Can anyone relate? 😭😭

Can’t wait for Saturday to come so that my date and I can Netflix and chill, then having him sleeping over and I waking up next to him. Miss his warmth and miss giving and receiving cuddles. I like the feeling of having certain people making you behave in a more tender way. I’ve been literally longing for that moment for the week as I’m on a boring PMO case. Romance is not lost between gay guys! :)

Any ladies at DU this week?

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

What’s up DC?

Single 🐠 from where do you get your emotional support? There is a constant void I feel and not family and friends support isn’t working out / not an option.

Moving to Seattle soon. I could use dates or friends 😅

I’m worried that my voice, communication style, and body language comes across as too effeminate for our straight clients and peers. I’m transitioning to sales now and am insecure that my personality and appearance may hinder sales gen? Client industry is very old school. Can LGBT partners//Ds/MDs chime in how they managed the same transition?

I need to switch teams or firms. Been here for a year and no development or projects with my team. Gay network help! Lol

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

Thoughts on Ru last night? *SPOILER WARNING. DON’T READ IF YOU HAVEN’T WATCHED YET*

Doctor rec’s? I was in DC before and I used to go to Whitman Walker, an LGBT focused primary care clinic, clean, efficient and friendly, and they understood the LGBT needs, like PrEP, very well, which is mainly what I need from my PCP. Is there such a thing in NYC?

Any bi males here who have struggled with “being taken seriously” by both the hetero & LGBTQ+ community? In the process of interviewing for a new company and feeling the familiar anxiety around coming out at work creeping up.

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?

After being broken up now for 14 months - I think I still love my ex. We were together 6 years, and never fought. I thought I would spend the rest of my life with him. I don’t know why I can’t move on. It’s my birthday weekend and I have plans all weekend, but can’t stop thinking about this. I’ve been out with lots of great guys, but I keep holding on that maybe… one day we will be together again. Then my ex texted me today to let me know he and his new fiancé are moving to (cont. below)…

Coz only you could fill this Empty Space Tell me now ....😛

Holidays can be tough for our community - I hope everyone is able to find some moments of self-care and happiness today!