Pet peeves: I'm now officially not responding to any Teams/Slack messages with anyone who only ask how I am/"happy <insert day>" and waiting for my response without also getting to what they want. Just get to the ask. The exception is the coworkers who I actually know ask randomly without needing anything. 🙃

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Meh, it doesn’t bother me. It seems politer to treat your coworkers like human beings, not just task monkeys. When I ask how someone is doing, I typically mean it. And I generally enjoy the people I work with and like the opportunity to check in on them.

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I don't care to respond because it's only to ask me a question. If they aren't sending it any other time than neither do they.

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Show me on the text thread where they hurt you.

Another read, maybe they’re just trying to be nice and make a small connection in a largely and often impersonal world.

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I support this x100! I’m so over this gen z let’s talk about feelings all the time. No, we’re here to work not to play friends. Take your to do list and get on with it.

Thank you for saying this. I often get right to it and worry people think I’m rude for skipping the little pleasantries

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Don't get me wrong I say a mixture of hi, how are you good morning etc. But I also immediately follow up with the point of me contacting you.

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Are you American? This seems like a super American way to approach asking someone for help/information etc. I’ve found in other countries people tend to treat their colleagues in a less transactional more human way and honestly I am far more inclined to help someone/give them info if they don’t just jump straight into what they want from me

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How are you really?

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I completely feel you! Ugh I hate it so much. That’s the point of instant message- just get to the ask.

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I do the same, OP. Know that they get the not-so-subtle hint eventually.

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My pet peeve is using the word “ask” as a noun in lieu of the word “question” or “request.”

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Ok how about when you slack them a question and they respond with “good morning!” or “hey what’s new” instead of the answer

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