Reading posts here, I see my past. Diagnosed at 32 in 2013. 2018, my business collapsed, impulsive decisions, people lost jobs, overwhelming shame. Years of depression followed holding executive roles that tormented me, I appeared successful to others. Presented a false self, felt I had to just "fit in." No sleep, no joy, misery. Finally, I had enough, found a new psychiatrist who insisted I work with someone to learn why my brain works this way and alter things, not just meds. Never give up.

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Thank you for sharing that. It really means a lot to me personally. Have felt amazing at times, and hopeless at others. Good to remember that it’s powerful to have the courage to keep trying.

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You don't need my kudos, but I'm still proud of you OP. Keep working to find a solution that works for you. Therapy, medication and daily workouts have done wonders for me. I still have my days where my brain feels all over the place, but they're fewer and further between than ever.

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