Really not sure why I went to law school. I spent all that time and money earning the degree and getting licensed. I now go into work, and while I do enjoy what I do somewhat, I am always stressed and I cant sleep at night because I’m worried about messing something up. I look at my friends who aren’t attorneys and they not only have a much more lax workload and can have more fun during the week, they also make more money than I do. Why am I in this industry again?

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I felt that way too. I think the profession attracts perfectionist worriers. I am not advocating this route but anti anxiety meds and a therapist helped. You must be really good at your job!

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I hadn’t thought of it that way. Thank you

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