Really pissed that Carrot Fertility’s contribution is considered taxable income 😤

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Really? I’m sorry that sucks… Now I’m wondering if I should have paid closer attention to my W2 from last year. Our fertility coverage is through Progyny though.

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I used it for elective egg freezing, but probably for those too.

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My tax preparer looked into it and if it was a medical necessity, meaning if it was to treat infertility it could be considered as a tax deductible medical expense- but I’m not infertile - just in no place to have a baby and not sure when if how I’ll ever have one.

Progyny is the same. I’d rather pay the taxes than the full amount. It’s still a fantastic benefit.

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Like as in for an egg / sperm purchase? Or how

Is it taxed up front or when you file taxes in April?

Jeez. That seems like kind of a dick move. I guess better than nothing but good to know not to budget for the full amount.

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