Salaam. 26 M. Houston. My hobbies are traveling, watching sports, and hanging out with friends. Hope to get married this year, ان شاء الله.

Question: I am pro choice but only up to the end of the 2nd trimester. I think after that, it's getting to gray territory that I can't support. My friends say this a really anti feminist view. What am I doing wrong?

This is super weird but I feel like I can’t relate easily to people. Hear me out - I moved and lived in different continents, countries every 5 years or so until now… I feel like I’m an outlier and my life is super different from anyone else’s. I have some friends I’ve met at each stage of my life, but it’s been temporary. I feel like I’m always going in a different direction than others. It makes it difficult to have a stable life and close friends..

A friend literally asked me if I could help her with her divorce. I was like, I'm a tax lawyer who bills 2700 hours, so, no, not even emotionally

My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

Any moms on here that absolutely love their company and feel 100% supported?

When did suffering through a work day in constant physical pain due to a medical issue become normal? The guilt I feel for staying home is more than I ever expected when I wanted to become a teacher.

Does anyone have experience breaking up w a therapist? I've been seeing my therapist for 5+ years for eating disorder treatment and we've been through so much together, but I don't think she's able to help me anymore. While I've stopped my ED behaviors, they've evolved into OCD, and I'm finding that her methods might be making it worse. I think I want to try an OCD expert instead. But I don't know how to end the relationship. Do I just stop going? Do I explain myself? I don't know what to do 🥺

Parents - do any of you truly regret having kids?

My boyfriend doesn't like to talk about his feelings. It's the time of year where he lost his sister (passed away) very suddenly and idk how to bring it up to him. I want him to know I know it's that time but feel like he'll just yell at me.

Dropped off my kids to school this morning and just felt unsettled. It’s so hard to concentrate on work today.

Anyone feel as if it’s hard to stay with a company when you’re the only one of color? (&young) I’ve work for 3 companies in past 5 years and have yet to make meaningful colleague relationships. I just do not relate to the conversation and just find it hard to picture myself being a long-term employee. I’ve had better relationships when working at wal-mart when I was in college. I feel it takes away some of the joy of having to go to work.

A relative is raising a teenage son with her ex-husband. They have joint physical custody. The ex-husband has re-married. When the son is in his care, he often leaves the son at home in California with his (new) wife when he travels for work (which is often). The relative wants her ex-husband to leave their son in her care when he travels out of town but the ex-husband disagrees. The relative wants to know her chances of prevailing if she were to appear in court on this issue. Thoughts? Thanks!

Two kids under the age of 8 and I find that I struggle to spend enough quality time with them between their school and activities and my unpredictable job. What do you folks do to be better parents?

Hi can you please help me with the right marital status when applying for German visa. I am a separated women but not a divorcee yet. Will it be a problem if I put my marital status as single. I have a kid. So will it be difficult if I need to take her with me . If I put single in visa will it be changing in my taxation.

Anyone else stuck here without family? I'm in SF and my roommates are going home to their families tonight and i'm going to be alone, it's going to be a long 3 weeks..... 😭😭😭

People that have small children - how do you deal with your child’s stress and separation anxiety when you go to work? My 4-year old goes berserk almost every day at some point relating to me having to work. The worst part is that I’ve been working from home bc of Covid and I’m literally just walking upstairs after giving hugs and kisses and saying see you soon 800 times. My spouse is a stay at home parent, but that doesn’t seem to matter to my son. A piece of me dies everyday because of this.

Any tips for organizing a bedroom, closet, dresser & bathroom? My teen has IADHD, and low executive functioning. Her room looks like a land mine. Clean clothes are mixed in with dirty, her desk is a disaster, she won’t let go of clothes she’s outgrown, drawers are open with clothes hanging out. A therapist said to close her door if we don’t want to see it but it’s more than that. She needs this important life skill & I don’t know how to help. Easier to organize w/o her but that’s not a solution.

Had another dream about my ex. I asked him questions on why he changed. He answered just let go. I think now my brain is finally starting to fully acknowledge there is only one path forward.

Anybody willing to help a broke kid out with some mock interview prep?

Anyone go to VIDA in ballston? Is it worth the $?

Hey All,
I finished a third round interview, and HR contacted me that afternoon saying I had positive feedback across the board and they would contact me the next day regarding next steps. It’s been two days and they finally get back to me saying they haven’t been able to sync with the hiring manager but will keep me posted. Honestly I wish they would talk with the hiring manager and then let me know the decision instead of checking in. It’s messing with my emotions.

Hi there can anyone tell me what a day in the life of a health unit coordinator is like and is it a step up from a regular CSR job or lateral move?

Pahado pe maggi bechne ka business shuru krne ka soch rha hu...koi partnership me aana chahta h ???

Hi friends ,

I got link im UST to order welcoming kit but when i login with work id as they mentioned it says invalid user id

Deloitte 🐠 - did anyone get selected in the H1B lottery this year? I have only heard of rejections so far sent from BAL

I am down $25K on $150K portfolio. Should I cut losses and leave or continue :(

Just got introduced to this Telegram channel with some 80k folks fighting for visa slots in US consulates mainly in India. Things USCIS make us do. This can’t stoop any lower. What a terrible way of treating people.

Hello guys, I just had a question,
Is it only me who straight out after joining as a fresher had been put on a hot pan of engagements here and there within one month of joining?

🐠 with <10 total YOE and $200k+ base. Can you highlight your role and path? Trying to identify more stable non-banking and tech roles. Thanks!

Anyone from accenture capability network in sap s4? Please dm or comment. I have some doubts

Hi all,
My friend has referred me in Virtusa, within 2 days HR called and said they have a job role for my profile and will confirm back for interview, but now they are saying that job post is closed.
I had put my other offers on hold due to virtusa.
If anyone is having a job opportunity in their project for a database developer please respond.

How much hike we can expect while promoting from SA to M level ?

Any 2bhk available near World Trade Center, Rajajinagar?

Hi, Required reference in Accenture for Program Service Coordinator post. If anyone can give reference please let me know.

Hi Sharks!
Question for Data Engineering project managers. And applying for the same role as above.
I come from only Project Management and scrum background. I have a client interview and expected to ask stuff on Azure. Could someone help me out what level should i prepare? DP-900?

How many of you are going to IIFA New York, being held in Jersey? 😂

Asalamualaikum! How’s it going?

32 F, indian based on east coast . Non-hijab, moderate Muslim, non drinker, non smoker, eats only halal. Hobbies- arts , paintings and history. Open to any nationality and sect<contd>.

Just a quick review of a matchmaking site - Blend Matching. I paid for 2 months and never received a single follow up after the initial matchmaker call (which I had 1 week after I signed up). $25/month but not worth it.

27F, Pakistani, Northeast US, open to relocation in the US but strong preference for the Northeast

Hijabi, no drinking / drugs / tats, pretty moderate in religion (just basics)

28 F, Boston based Egyptian American (born and raised in the U.S. non-Hijabi, non-smoker. Plays guitar and works in tech. Easygoing and open minded. Looking for the same.

How’s it going?

Ramadan Mubarak Everyone!

27F, Midwest, looking for someone raised in the states/Canada ideally, practicing Sunni, don't drink/smoke, non-hijabi. Lemme know if you're interested or know someone that might be!

Example post:

24F,📍Carmel IN, willing to relocate within US only, Sunni

Wear a niqab/don't eat halal/don't drink/do shisha/have tattoo etc

27M, 6ft, Pakistani Amreekan workaholic with a half decent personality. Love theater, film making, reading and cooking. Great with parents & bachas 😇

Not Sunni, Nonsectarian, Open.

28F ..metro detroit. African. Hijabi/turban. Open to any and all races. Dont drink or smoke. Mostly eats halal. Prays. Opn minded and adventurous.

Looking to settle down! iA

32M
In Sydney, Australia
Nationality: Australian and Pakistani
Religion: Sunni
Profession: Strategy Manager
Hobbies: Hiking, Rock climbing, Travelling, Reading Fantasy fiction, Politics and Self-improvement

Looking for someone from 25-31. Don't care about ethnicity. Practising Muslim. HMU

Bengali, 24M, US, Don't drink/don't smoke/ eat halal. Interested in south asian F in similar religious base

27M Syed Sunni Indian. Born in 🇦🇺 , 🇺🇸 for ~20 yrs - Boston based (dual citizen) . Can cook and clean, athletic (when I want to be). Sometimes smart but mostly dumb. Prays / fasts but also likes Drake

28F, Pakistani, willing to relocate within the US. I don’t wear hijab, don’t drink or smoke, do eat halal. Like baking, running, and am kind of a prankster. US born and raised.

28F, Indian, decent looking, moderately religious, partial hijabi, NYC looking for a broad minded and easy going guy. Why is this so hard??

31M, looking for my partner in crime, if you are European/middle eastern/american, career driven, family oriented, have a great personality and want to grow in your relationship with Allah & plan to stay in the US at least midterm, hit me up or put in a referral :) probably asking for the impossible here.

27 F, Indian, Sunni Muslim, In USA from last 6 years. Works at Deloitte.

Open minded, eat halal, non-smoker, non- hijabi. Love to travel. Pray, Fast and give Zakah on regularly.

Willing to relocate anywhere in USA.