Seriously I have been single in Seattle for 2 years. The crazy thing is, I even had LDR with a dude in Boston while living in Seattle. I had bf in San Francisco before too. Is Seattle dating scene so bad?

I gained weight during my last relationship (probably around 30 lbs, and I’m 5’9”). Before my relationship, I felt like I could get any guy. But I’ve been single for 2 years now and it’s been so hard to date. I’m not sure if maybe I’ve lost confidence, but I legitimately don’t know how to get a guy to be interested. Any pointers?

A first for me, after 1.6 million miles. Thankful for a delay. The delay on the connector saved me a night at ord Hilton after the ludicrous delay on the first leg.t. Truly grateful united

I had a sex dream about my senior, but I have a boyfriend. Am I terrible? Has this happen to anyone else?

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

I work a travel job (consulting - domestic travel) and plan to move to NY/NJ soon. I know that more flights fly from JFK and LGA than Newark. Should that be part of my consideration when choosing to live in NY or NJ?

Hi all, I have been in social services for about 2.5 years now. Initially as a Case Manager and now a Care Coordinator. I currently make $25/hour while living in San Diego, CA. Does this pay seem fair to where I live/the job description?

Any single women like houses?

ATL airport a chaos this morning... Regular check point an hour long to clear..

What is the current salary for a S1 or S2 in the VME group for HCOL? San Francisco?

We flew back from Ireland today on Delta. Our connecting flight from JFK at 6:10 was cancelled while we were flying over the Atlantic Ocean, and we were rebooked on a 3:40 instead (2.5 hours earlier) but not notified. I received no email, text or app notification of the flight cancellation or the new flight we were placed on, so we missed it. They now cannot get us home tonight and won’t even guarantee they can get us home tomorrow, impacting my work, (cont)…

Got an offer as a Senior 2 in EY’s FAAS practice for $117,500 base and $12,500 bonus. Home office is San Francisco. Is this expected for that position? Any insights?

Are Uber/Lyft drivers reluctant to drive from DC (Logan) to BWI?

35M. Friend zoned after one date. What am I doing wrong? I met her at a baby shower. We talked/text regular for about a month or so because I was traveling for work. Finally went on a date about two weeks ago, a week after I told her I like her and said she never thought about us being romantic. Today I got the official friend zoned text.

Hi all. I'm new here, still trying to figure things out. 17 years experience in litigation insurance defense in various practices areas seeking preferably a remote position, but open to hybrid in ATL.

if youve been talking to someone for 3 months and u catch them in a lie by stalking their friend on IG, should you call them out or is that too crazy

Females, how much of your personal life do you disclose to the men in your team? I.e. Lovers, relationships, ONS etc

Not having luck finding a relationship or having any guys interested in me for 28 years. Thinking about resorting to plastic surgery to increase my chances of finding somebody

Has anyone had any success doing online dating to find their catholic significant other? I would have loved finding someone in Consulting but just finding someone that is openly catholic has been a challenge.

Unpopular opinion:
Don't understand what people are loving about Indian Matchmaking
I do not find it hilarious and do not find Nadia adorable 🙄

Hello and happy Thanksgiving! What are the pros and cons of living in San Diego vs San Francisco? I’m from NY and looking to move to one of those locations. I’m hoping to get more info on rent, dating, entertainment, taxes, and job stability.

What is your engineering field and how do you see it changing over the next 5 years?

Hi fishes,

Comment your total hike, VP , ctc current, level, designation, tech stack you have received as per Nov 22.

Any recommendation for a extra firm good quality mattress under $1k?

Hi those who are looking for "Talent Acquisition Specialist" and work from home. DM me.

What are the next step after H1B petition approval? Do we have to book visa appointment or company does that on our behalf?

Does anyone else find it absolutely hysterical that people group MBB/FAANG/PE/VC for the prestige-oriented folks and they never include BB IB 🤣

🥰 Good morning, here’s a Thought for Today: What can we do in our teaching practice to ensure that the term Antiracist does NOT become synonymous with anti white? 🤔

What projects could I do data related to build my portfolio? Not sure what kind of projects to work on related to advertising and marketing.

Which city would you recommend for single men in late 20s trying to find good opportunities in career & dating? Leaning more towards to NYC but not planning to live in Manhattan due to the high rent so I am not sure that would be okay. Also don't want to drive that much.

Not hungry during the day. Don’t eat breakfast, graze lunch, full dinner.

Insatiable at 9pm.

What gives?

H1B lottery results are out! Let’s update each other here! I’m not sure how much time BAL takes to inform the selected applicants!

I think I’m ready to leave public accounting. Where do I even begin? (See more in comments)

How do y’ll save money on taxes? Other than obvious routes like 401k.

What’s a must have technical skill for a consultant in 2021? (Sr. Manager & above)

What would you do?
My company contracts a web developer, we have a set amount of hours for the quarter and pay over if more work is needed.
He never gets anything done. Doesn’t answer emails half the time. The one thing he’s done was take out a blurb that threatened our eligibility for patent renewal.
We have another company taking over in January, but I still have some pretty important dev needs until then and I can’t get him to do a thing. I truly try to give him all he needs.

Hello folks,
I'm looking to get any references for SAS technical role. I have 10+years of experience in Banking industries. Have worked various roles from SAS Programmer, senior programmer, SAS SME, SAS Senior Consultant, Credit Risk analyst, Fraud monitoring, Data analyst, etc. with multiple SAS tools a banking, capital market, investment, credit risk domain. Please let me know if anyone can refer me for any SAS related opportunities.

Hello Guys,
I am holding offer from capgemini and Tech mahindra.
Capg: 30 lpa designation: C2 Manager. Techm: 30 lpa designation: U4 tech lead. Which one to join?
YOE: 8

How do you maintain focus? I find myself distracted every 2 minutes.

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

My friend and I (both Asian and gay) were seating at the cafe on the 2nd floor of Saks Fifth Ave today waiting for our table for the restaurant on the 9th floor. A lady came and asked where are we from, and “why are you two men in this mall? This is for female only”. I said this mall sells products for all genders. She said she has walked all floors and never saw a thing for men. Then she threw curse at me. I stood up and asked her to repeat what she said. She pulled her phone and called 911

Let’s move out of NYC SF together lol . Maybe try LA ?

Would you date an ex army/marine who has actually been through wars (and killed people) and told you that they can hear ringing noises?

Regret it but I reach to 5-6 times a day . What’s your count ? 🤪

I accept follow requests left & right without following back and without shame. What does this say about me besides that I and, let’s say Beyoncé, are generally very similar?

Well I recently told a guy I have been seeing I have HSV-2. We have not yet been physical but it’s been heading that direction. Man I hate this part - waiting to see what his response will be after he researches and talks to his doctor. I’m on daily meds which help reduce transmission risk. You’d think that since HSV-2 affects 20% of Americans and likely a higher % of gay men, there would be less taboo but it’s hardly ever talked about. Anyone else in my shoes? Or had it disclosed to them?

I know I will get hated by saying this. Do you think gay pride events are portraying a bad image about our community to public? (Drugs, sexual, inappropriate clothes, and sometimes like strip clubs- some parts). I know it is right to present us but I just feel it is not the right way to show who we are. I wish the pride where everybody can connect in a more friendly way (outdoor game- team work, dance, drink something not too sexual.) there are some good parts of pride tho. Any opinions?

Are there any nudists in this group? Know any good groups/spots in Chicago? I just moved here and I'd like to get involved.

Gay man who works in a large org that is big on diversity and inclusion efforts. I’d say about 50-60% of people (at all levels, across all age groups and races) list their gender pronouns in email signature. I list mine because I see it as a way to show support for colleagues who may not be cisgender. If anyone else works in the same type of environment, do you infer anything about colleagues who choose not to list their gender pronouns? (such as they are homo/trans phobic?)

Any trans in this bowl from India ?

Rant. This guy I have been talking to started making me feel bad about who I am and my roots. About how not American I am. He started calling me odd. I blocked him but now I feel inadequate.

How many of you are in an interracial relationship? And what are yours and your partner's ethnicities?Just wanted to do a quick poll :)

Dealing with my firm's Foreign Accounts Payable team and keep snickering at the FAP acronym 😋

Best experience at a gay bar?

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

Met a great woman this weekend. We are going on a date at the end of the month. Both have crazy schedules end of this month and next . I can’t stop thinking about her :) happy pride 🏳️‍🌈 ❤️

Anyone been to crew club in DC?

People seem to just want to hook-up but never date. I seem to always start falling for my hook-ups after a while. What am I doing wrong? Live in NYC.