Show of hands if you’ve ever felt like you had to stay dark on social during a pitch or any other time because your boss is a friend or follower.

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You can set access privileges to people’s profiles and how much they can see if yours.

Also, if your boss is calling people out for having lives outside of work by snooping their social media , that’s mad toxic.

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If you feel like you need to do that, you need to change companies. Where do you work, so I can avoid it?

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I did it for friends that I knew would love to be hanging out too but were stuck. But never for my boss.

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Are they really a friend?

I personally hate this kind of stuff where CDs try to be buddy buddy. Showing up at bars, asking to grab dinner, etc.

Stay dark why? because you’re supposed to be working non-stop??

Huh

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