So I moved out of the parents house, got my own place, got all the furniture put together started the first job... uh how do I make friends? Dare I say, maybe go on a date again? In Chicago have a couple friends in the city but no one really reliable at the moment

Tried and true methods for getting your girlfriend to give more oral?

Lazy Sunday. Any female fish like to chat?

Looking for a female to share a 2bhk in Indira nagar. Found the place today.. Reply asap.

I’m keep getting flashbacks from my previous relationship. I want to report him for domestic abuse/date rape charges but I don’t know if it’s a wise idea esp after a whole yr

Brought my gf sushi take out to her house when she got off of work. She didn't like the meal I got her and started to eat the roll i got for myself. She noticed I wasn't eating so I told her I ate before rather than tell her she was actually eating my dinner. She's now mad at me that I "lied" even though I did it so she wouldn't be embarrassed. Who's in the wrong

SIL and BIL told us excitedly last weekend that she was pregnant (had literally just found out, so barely four weeks). This week she tells us she’s not pregnant anymore :(. They did not seem super torn up about it and were very practical about it. We said how sorry we were, etc etc. should I do anything else? Should I not mention it again unless they do?

35 Female NYC, 🥳

Anyone else stuck here without family? I'm in SF and my roommates are going home to their families tonight and i'm going to be alone, it's going to be a long 3 weeks..... 😭😭😭

Looking for perspective: Did money play a role in evaluating whether someone could be your life partner?

Let’s say you have two young, high income partners in a couple who want to buy a house together but don’t really care to get married. They already live together in an apartment but both want to move to a house to build equity and have a yard, not share walls, etc. Should one partner buy the house and the other pays rent until they get married, or should they get a mortgage together without being married? I realize there isn’t a “right” answer but I’m interested in people’s experiences here.

Which city would you recommend for single men in late 20s trying to find good opportunities in career & dating? Leaning more towards to NYC but not planning to live in Manhattan due to the high rent so I am not sure that would be okay. Also don't want to drive that much.

My gf and me call each other everytime we have free time. However lately she seems disinterested in phone time. She never initiates calls anymore and she tells me she wants to hang up in the middle of the day and not right before bedtime. We live a 4 hour drive apart. And I told her this is like living together from a distance, because I put her on the house speakers. What can I do to keep her engaged?

Does anyone have experience breaking up w a therapist? I've been seeing my therapist for 5+ years for eating disorder treatment and we've been through so much together, but I don't think she's able to help me anymore. While I've stopped my ED behaviors, they've evolved into OCD, and I'm finding that her methods might be making it worse. I think I want to try an OCD expert instead. But I don't know how to end the relationship. Do I just stop going? Do I explain myself? I don't know what to do 🥺

My fiancé will NOT stop talking about her ex. After I found out they were texting arguing she justified it by saying it was about the dogs and not them. Even though Her social media is full of his pics. She still sends him $50 a month for dog food, still goes to work right by his place and suspiciously needs keys. I try to bring it up and I get dismantled for being too mean and making “false accusations.” How much more obvious can it be?

I’m excited to marry my SO in a few months but I have severe stage fright and do not like being the center of attention. Any advice on how to reduce the anxiety and just enjoy the day?

Wife is twelve weeks pregnant. Just found out we’re having our third boy.

Anyone know any good divorce lawyers in NYC?
Thanks in advance 🙇🏾‍♀️

Well, I was the one who broke it off. I couldn’t get him to love me the way I needed or even respect me enough. It’s been 6 weeks of not seeing each other. We messaged this week. He doesn’t get it…. His messages show he still doesn’t know what he wants. Yet, if I am totally honest, I hate how part of me wishes he would do a grand gesture/finally decide to be a better man. It’s delusional. It’s crazy how love can be so rosy, sweet & blinding that the red flags seem surmountable.

3 months post breakup… I seemed to be healing well and all the sudden this week I took a huge step back and feel heartbroken all over again. For context I was in a 4 year relationship including 1 year engaged and had to call my wedding off due to his infidelity. How can I shake this? 😔

Conduct annual performance reviews with your kids and let them know their status in the family is at stake. There’s no feeling in the world that compares to seeing an 8 year old kid on a PIP turn it around and earn an invitation to come back next year.

Has anyone ever travelled by air with a paper license (temp license)? Did you run into any issues with TSA?

I joined tcs on feb 2022
Recently I resigned, i know it was worst decision to leave tcs early but also worst to join 😁🥲

Anyone aware about wfo policy for expecting mother's?

What do fishes know about an alliance management career? How do you get into it? What’s career progression / wlb like?

Is it worth going for AM?

Hi everyone. Does anyone have salary info for senior associate hires at LSEG UK? Thanks

Got few questions regarding LTI and business analyst role. 1:Does anyone have any idea how many rounds are normally conducted for LTI business analyst interview. 2.How how many days they take normally to release offer. 3. How much should i expect /ask for 4.8 yoe for business analyst role.

Hi Doctors,
Can a man die of schezophrenia if he do not take medicines?
Exp : 6 yrs, kava, spring boot, microservices and aws.
Curr Comp: Concentrix,
prev Comp: Citi, Fiserv, TCS and Accenture.
Thanks!

Urgent ,i need a job going through hard times .Single earning person . please help

Hi guys.... As a fresher I have two offer letters.
1. Trainee developer in Birlasoft.
Service agreement - 2 years,
bond amount - 1 lakh rupees
CTC : 4LPA
Location : Hyderabad
2. Associate Developer in NeosAlpha technologies.
Service agreement - 2 years,
No financial bond but I have to submit my original documents for 2 years time period
CTC: 3.5 Lpa
Location : Jaipur Rajasthan
Please guide me for that which company is good for me to start my career.

Which companies have PM roles that are more strategy focused than PO focused (e.g., focusing on overall product strategy and not leading a Dev team to deliver specific product features)?

I can manage my classroom better if I don’t respond to emails outside of office hours. This gives my mind a break and by consequence refreshes me for the next day. It also sets a boundary.

What’s Opus London like?

Hi fishes,

I got a offer of 26lpa(23.5 fixed and 2.5 variable) from genpact and 21 lpa (20 fixed , 1 joining) from epam, not sure which one should I join. Please if someone can advice me which i should join keeping ressession in mind. Thanks in advance@

PwC MC 2014/2015 MBA hires... What was your bonus (pretax)?

Publican Quality Meats. Little Goat Diner. Sunshine. Amazing day in Chicago. 👍

I’m currently in ERP and really want to get into cloud. Currently hold the Azure Fundamentals, AWS SAA, and GCP security certs. Any suggestions on what I can do to increase my chance to get into cloud?

Book recommendations on leadership, career development, etc?

Thoughts/reviews on Indian Matchmaking?

What’s the salary band for someone in the Washington DC area at a senior 2 rank with 4 years of federal DoD audit moving into DoD audit readiness consulting position? Do Big 4/tier 2/MBB firms provide services to the DoD or other federal entities?

Anyone else hide your laptop between your back and the seat during takeoff so you can still work, but put your brief case in the overhead?

Who's pumped for the new iPhone ? Apple has been sneakily downplaying expectations all through the last month. Now my expectations are so low I'll give a standing ovation for releasing d same phone

I used to have açaí bowls for breakfast while traveling because of per diem. Now that I’m bracing to be WFH for the long run, I want to start making nicer breakfasts to make me happier. Where are the best places to get açaí? Not the powder, the frozen packets

🐠 in Bay Area Tech/Prod companies: Do you generally experience that the tech folks just don’t respect the non tech ones? There is this general mindset that I will not respect you or care for what you have to say unless you code better than I do? How do you navigate this?

Are T2 Firms like Kearney ranked above B4 firms like KPMG? I’m a first year associate and the hierarchy is still a little confusing in the industry lol.

Best consulting firms with best WLB? Do they exist? Young professional starting to think about where I'd like to work hard to end up in the next 5-10 years.

Tried and true methods for getting your girlfriend to give more oral?

When scatterplots and utilization metrics have u down, then you talk to your fav PPD and she's like girl I got u 🎉🎁🎂

BCG folks, I hear rumors of layoffs happening given the slow pipeline. Is it true?

Is there something similar to TrueCar in the UK to look up basic approximate pricing of new cars?

My online application portal in EY says - We'd like to progress you to next step in the recruiting process since 3 weeks, but no one has reached out yet. Any idea if I can do something to expedite this.

Best way to study for AWS cloud practitioner certification? (Not very technical but hoping to learn)

Do mbb and big 4 do different types of work in deal making?

Any audio book recommendations to listen to when backpacking / vacationing?