Sometimes I have to get up and take a walk because I can't take how mundane these conversations from the middle aged employees are. If I ever get to that point I'd just end it.

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You will. And you won't.

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Yeah I bet you probably rather here about Pokémon go.

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In middle America, fairly rural suburb. These people are late 40s-50s and work a boring job in a boring town and have conversations about what the local Walmart is or is not stocking these days.

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I'd rather hear* about anything that doesn't make me sad.

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Listen to their stories, act interested, fake laugh, play the fucking game.

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So what conversations would you prefer to have?

How does their convo make you sad? Sounds like you're just being a busybody @Op.

Not being a busybody if I don't involve myself in it... They basically yell, so I can hear them two rows of cubes over.

Try to find something exciting about their lives - you will be surprise with what you can find out one you let your prejudices go

Stop being so condescending. They may be much happier than you.

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