This is a VERY long story. Even skipping parts will take awhile, so I'll hit the important things first. If anyone wants the whole story lmk, I really am interested to see if its me over thinking or if I had just been groomed to believe her constant lies because I wanted it to work so badly. We've been dating more or less since early 2013. She is actually 12 years older than me but never looked it. Still to this day her inboxes are flooded with men trying to hit on her or to just say "Hi

The other day I was traveling in path train and a desi random dude came and sat next to me. He was smelling so bad that the lady next to her had to get up while making a face. It was kind of embarrassing. Guys (and in some cases girls too) please buy a deo stick/perfume. It’s CHEAP - You will still be able to send money back home! 😂

I am feeling naughty since morning! Anyone sharing the feeling?

There’s a manager on here who is cat fishing. Tells women he’s a woman and asks for phone number. Doesn’t share name and uses a Google voice number. Happened with another friend of mine on this bowl and with me. Please be careful.

32 M in the Bay Area and bored in quarantine. Any F looking to chat?

Any guys out there shave or trim their leg hair? Ladies - thoughts?

Any single F in Edison, NJ up for a casual coffee date and hanging out maybe ( since everyone here seems to be married, wtf🤬 ).
I’m a single M 27, Interested in movies and road trips. 🚘

Currently in a committed relationship and just came to the realization that I have actually never been single in my life. Sometimes I wonder what the single life is like.. just dating and doing whatever I want without having to think about a partner. Any one else ever felt like this? Or been in this situation?

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

Are the standards for what makes a black man or woman an attractive person for a potential relationship or marriage material the same for white men or women? Do we judge all 4 groups (black man, black woman, white man, white woman) the same?

If your GF is interested in a 3some, what are your thoughts on that? 🤭

Timma be high and eat hot dogs.

Agree or disagree: devil dogs is only good high. Dog Hause on the otherhand - low key date night and high

How young is too young? Would you ever consider dating someone who is in the age-range where they COULD’VE been your student!?!? 😳

What are your favorite places for 1st/2nd/3rd/4th/5th dates in the Bay Area? Please share some date ideas other than restaurants :) thanks!

Just curious, do people from this bowl still do sexting?

Stories of a Jax night out?

I'll go first: on a last night out for a navy guy I'd dated for like 6mo he dragged us to king street where i never enjoy, at the bar w the toss the ring game a couple was fucking in the bathroom and the guy in front of me in line was mad about it taking so long so he started banging on the door trying to break it down and started to fight them when they came out. So we escaped to kickbacks where a customer threw a drink at the waitress who subsequently pulled a 🔪

Hey

Male here,

Anyone up for weekend catchup and drive ...female preferred ;)

How to meet new people once in the city? I’m a guy (26) if that changes anything

Any F from Ny metro? 34 M here

Hi All,

i am .net dev with 3.3 yoe have offer of16 lpa (service) and my current company (product) is trying to retain me with 14 lpa its been 1.2 yrs in my current company. Tech stack is good over here. What should i do ? b please suggest.

What impact has the prestige of your school had on your career?

Anyone use OneNote as a transactional lawyer? How do you like it? Trying to be more organized with all my ongoing deals!

Ok -- let's hear it. Best restaurants in ATL - go! My parents are coming to town and I want to wow them, they are serious foodies and very adventurous. Tell me your recc's!!

Does anyone know which country’s U.S embassy is open to renew US visa stamp for H1B ? I know Canada closed the borders until May 31. Just wondering what other countries are good options now given the pandemic. Thanks.

I’ve been approved for H1-B which started on 10/01 this year. I’m changing jobs but my current job is filing an amendment. Can an amendment and transfer be done simultaneously? Has anyone had a similar experience with this?

Context: Current firm is Deloitte Advisory and I’m moving to Deloitte Consulting.

Any helpful answers would be appreciated. Thanks!

Pay progression from SE to management? Was wondering what a typical SE manager makes because it’s hard to find.

Shower thought:
Why did Toronto (or Canada?) change the exit signs from the classic red EXIT sign to the green running man? Wouldn’t it confuse more people especially elders in finding the exit?

Also isn’t it a waste of money for businesses to replace perfectly functional exit signs when renovating?

People with depression in big law- how do you manage? How do you meet your hours? The lack of support/training and being remote has been very hard on me.

Question: Girl friends parents finally came over for a ristha. Everything went great or so I thought but now she wants to time to think about moving forward. The pain point she brought up is that we are in different states and she is feeling pressed. Although in that time she has started communicating less and I literally had to beg her to get on face time. My gut says she wants to end it but unsure. Any advice ? It's been 2 weeks since this event

My psychiatrist today revealed to me that I may have ADHD, still a hypothesis that he is still exploring but from my personal experiences and discussions with therapist, it seems likely.

One example of personal experience is my ongoing prep for case studies as I'm interviewing with a number of firms. I do struggle to keep focus and generally take a bit longer to finish them, specifically the structuring of the case. Does anybody else feel the same way and any recommendations to overcome this?

First time investor in the US. Any suggestions on books / blogs to read to get smart. Where do people typically invest given all the client related policies in place for consulting firms?

Agency I freelance for just gave me the ultimatum. I’d make $75K less to go full-time, and even that they weren’t sure they could get finance to sign off.

Why haven’t salaries gone up at all?

Thoughts on Ogletree as an associate? Salary/day to day life

Anyone go to product from data science? Any thoughts on your transition?

Hello Fishes,

Can anyone guide on best platform for HR job opportunities in foreign countries for Indians?

How many teachers are using Nearpod?

Let me know who here has dealt with impaired risk . Working with a 74 year old male non smoker who had a coronary bipass 11 years ago, may have some renal issues and is afraid to do a stress test. Any ideas or experience with something like this?Any carrier suggestions?

I love lamp.

The sound of people yawning loudly gets on my nerves

Interesting debate with a colleague: which is more personal/intimate: oral sex or intercourse?

Need help: my dad did an interview for US citizenship in May and he passed but they said they will do some ‘investigation’ and will hear back within 120 days. Its been more than that and we haven’t heard back. We have an international travel coming soon and we are a bit worried about this situation whether the immigration will cause any issue regarding this while returning. Please suggest any advice

How much time in a day do you spend on this app? I think it’s too much for me. 😆

I have pretty bad anxiety to the point where it affects my job performance and will cause me to waste hours because I'm trying to cope with symptoms. I hate that xanax works so well and am terrified of getting addicted to it. Wasted 2 hours this morning panicking and thinking I was about to have a heart attack or something stupid, then I took a xanax and drank some tea and I'm super focused again and my productivity is way up. Anyone else take xanax? I usually only do like 2x a week.

My neighbor is a bit creepy/lonely (?). He comes over to chat when I’m outside working on the house or doing yard work and doesn’t catch on too well to social cues. He’ll mention small details about my routine or new changes to the house (just moved in). It’s a bit uncomfortable and I’ve had a few awkward moments with him already. Anyone else have any odd or awk neighbor experiences? How do you dealllll when you just don’t want to interact?

This guy Elon is hilarious. Trolls everyone, sleeps with people's wives.
When I grow up I wanna be just like him.
Even roasting other billionaires like Bezos and Gates.
I always thought to reach to the top you'd have to act a certain way, but this guy simply does what he wants and does not care.

I think I might get a divorce

Why is Legacy status accepted as a reasonable part of the application process yet Affirmative Action isn’t? Both are the result of things you had no control over. . .

The stress of this job ruined my life.
The stress has lead to an eating disorder that I can’t get control of. I’ve lost 25 pounds since starting at the firm two and a half years ago. I am 20 pounds less than I was in high school... I don’t know how to get control again. Even when the stress lays off I can’t eat more due to being used to being busy for almost 9 months out of the year...

I’m having a fantastic hair day and I’m not sure what to do with all this power 😩

To all the divorced folks out there...

1) What went wrong in your relationship?
2) What's one piece of advice you'd give to us singletons before jumping into a long term relationship/marriage?

I like to learn from other people's mistakes 😅

I lashed out emotionally at work recently as of result of a lot pent up frustration. In short I accused those around me of personally attacking me. And I am worried I will loose my job as of result.

I still think one of the dumbest things about our society is that we distinguish women’s relationship status with Ms. vs Mrs., but men are all Mr… When are we going to stop defining women by marriage?

Currently in a committed relationship and just came to the realization that I have actually never been single in my life. Sometimes I wonder what the single life is like.. just dating and doing whatever I want without having to think about a partner. Any one else ever felt like this? Or been in this situation?

I hate it when I'm shopping for dresses and I see one that's really cute, only to find out it's a romper

What is “the 71”?

Why am I getting so many interview calls right after I accepted an offer 😫

A toxic co-worker tried to throw me under the bus to cover their mistake in a call with leadership 😢😢. I showed the proof of conversation the next moment without hesitation to everyone. Suddenly their tone changes and tries to divert the topic 😒😒. I am distraught 🙁🙁