TW: suicide. My DR told me that they have been actively sharing with coworkers that they survived suicide before joining our company. This person tends to share a lot about their personal life at work. This is my first time hearing it as well and didn’t know what to say in the moment except to thank them for trusting me with their story. Should I address with them that this might make coworkers uncomfortable or trigger my coworkers by hearing about it?

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Talking about overcoming suicide attempts is the best way to prevent others from committing suicide. It’s not an easy topic for anyone, but it’s great that they are able to share and be transparent in their life experiences. We’re all human, so be human.

Having lost three people this year (one coworker, two friend/acquaintances), I wish more people would talk about overcoming it. It’s scary to think you’re alone, that you are the only one. If this person’s story saves one life, it’s worth it.

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