What is your relationship with your mother on a scale of 0-10? 0 means cut ties, and 10 means besties.

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10! I call her a couple times a day usually, when I have random news or things that happened in my day (good things)

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I love it hehe

Honestly, 15! She was my soulmate, she died in 2015 and I miss her everyday. I would start and end my day talking to her. I wish she was here now..

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and I’m so sorry you lost you mother. Know that she continues to live in you and your thoughts and actions!

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5. M, raised by an Asian tiger mom.

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I’d say 7. She’s always been wonderfully supportive and caring (both my parents are, actually), but I wouldn’t say we’re best friends. Some things, my parents don’t need to know and they don’t particularly want to know 😂

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F. Complicated 10. She's amazing, but she's traumatized in a lot of ways and very highly susceptible to YouTube and internet disinformation. It's been hard to have a conversation with her the past two years. I don't really know how to deprogram her.

I still love her more than anyone.

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7….we have been getting closer over the years.

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5, overbearing and judgmental

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0 - she is dead.

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about 8-9! living at home temporarily so we get more time together

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1, we’re not completely no contact but close

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0 with birth mother. Currently 0 with step mother and Father. Horrific narcissistic personalities I can’t allow in my life anymore.

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8.5/9, she is great with almost everything, except when I talk about being bi

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She has been living with me most of her life and has ruined all my relationships. My siblings only took her 1 year and gave her back. I can’t do anything with her to ever have my own life let alone family. I’m just counting the days. I hate my life because if her and the daily burdens.

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Aren’t there state run facilities? You need to put yourself first and get your life in order before you sacrifice it all for your mother.

Female-0 No contact in over 4 years. She's not interested. I've never denied a phone call.

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Female.. 1.5. She raised me to believe that she wasn’t one of my friends and I carried that with me into adulthood. We have a surface level relationship, don’t know each other at all.

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A 0 have not spoken in 8 years

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Hugs!

8-9, very blessed to have a loving mother. Wasn’t always this high but we worked in it as we both got older.

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9.5

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9!!

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9 on average, 6.5 on the worst days. Sometimes, I wish I had a little distance, but my mom is awesome and I know I won’t have her forever

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5… I feel obligated to talk to her bc she’s stuck in a house with father who’s a miserable human

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