What seemingly tiny thing at work can trigger a complete meltdown for you? Let's normalize those weird stress points.

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Conflicting priorities all coming in at once and not knowing how to deal with them

Passive aggressive comments from partners

Slow days with no hard deadlines

Being overwhelmed by the sheer amount of work needed on a project

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Feeling like I’ve lost control of my time because of conflicting priorities and having to come up with processes without having a group to collaborate with, to name a few.

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Feeling crazy for wanting to talk my ideas out with someone else before advising a client.

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Also just wanted to add that people with ADHD often have little self-awareness or trouble expressing their feelings in the moment. While I can read other people well, it is hard for me to know, from moment to moment, how I am doing. My lack of ability to observe oneself in the moment leads to wanting to check my thoughts with others.

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someone putting a call on my calendar (in a relatively short amount of time) without telling me what it is

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something coming in super last minute as i’m about to sign off that i very much could’ve made happen during the day with proper notice

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