For the first time in my life, I know what I’m supposed to do at my job, with relationships around me and it’s all because the enormous sense of anxiety I used to experience evaporated during quarantine. I didn’t know that I lived with so much anxiety that it crippled me. I didn’t know I needed this time to myself.

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I used to have anxiety. Winning the war on anxiety and living a confident life will be the most rewarding win of your life.

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+1 how?

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Thank You.
I'm just beginning to see my anxiety and fear, and hope I get to where you are.

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Thank you, I believe there’s still a long way to go for me but it’s definitely better than 2 months ago when I was back in the office 🙏🏻

Same here. It has been very eye opening.

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Congrats OP! Not a lot of people can say that. What helped? I used therapy but curious as to other routes

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Beautifully stated. Happy for you.

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Thank you!

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