What's non-negotiable for you in dating?

Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

Need some advice. My friend hooked up with someone who is now my GF but back when I was in a relationship with someone else. Now that her and I are dating I can’t help but feel weird when my friend and GF chat. Is that weird or normal?

What’s the biggest issue you’ve faced with dating non-lawyers?

How often do you have sex? How long have you been together? I’m lucky if I get it 1x a week and I’m getting frustrated.

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

30/F/(currently) Tampa, FL 🐠🏝 👱🏽‍♀️ Serious relationship only. Fit, cute, intellectual looking for her soulmate 💕

Dating my guy for 6 months now and he’s just such a lovely soul but I’m not physically attracted, there’s no spark and I’m afraid to let go but also afraid to keep holding on..

Could anyone suggest a good ladies pg in Marathalli area? Preferably single sharing or double.

So I was hesitant to join this bowl due to the fact that I am not technically single yet. I am currently going through a divorce. I thought this bowl might be a way to meet people who could help me navigate the dating world (which is terrifying to me).

When do we think dating can go back to normal post-pandemic? Are we thinking mid 2021?

So… I sometimes squirt and I’m super nervous during sex because I don’t know how guys will react. Fellas, how would you feel if your sneaky link started squirting during a session at her place?

I lived in tampa in my early 20s and am now in my late 30s and looking to move back. One of the reason I left is because I felt I had too much energy for the city for a single young professional, but now husband is from there and we have a kid but we are both social people. Do you guys find it easy to meet interesting people and has the city gotten any more fun?

27 years M from suburbs Chicago looking to date

27M, Pakistani, 5’11, Pakistani, Philly

Funny [looking] guy looking for girl for marriage

Must be kind, soft hearted, warm, empathetic, intuitive, creative, passionate, wholesome, have ‘practical life experience’

Random keywords: Muslim, Sunni, plant dad, socks and sandals, Pakistani food > , laying in parks, overanalyzing movies and music, collecting credit card rewards points, Spotify playlists, long drives

Work: Supply Chain Consultant

Which is better for meeting other gay women? Tindr or bumble?

“You have a good looking face. But your body is absolute junk."

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

I had a sex dream about my senior, but I have a boyfriend. Am I terrible? Has this happen to anyone else?

If a guy invites you to stay the night, does that means something?

Any F in Minnesota?

Considering working from India for a couple of years due to personal reasons. Any advice for Salary expectations/negotiations? Haven't worked in India for over a decade.

Senior consultant, came into Deloitte with over 14 YOE (industry), in the FSI -> IM space, expertise & experience in buy side asset management.

If you are open/willing to offer referrals, happy to talk. Any insights are greatly appreciated. Thank you.

I finally got a raise (after 10 years) from 45k to 50k with less than 10k in incentives while others who are just starting at lower positions make more than me..I want to bring this up but don’t want to come off in a bad way considering they finally gave me a raise this year.

I’ve been verbally offered a position at a new company, but the recruiter insists on getting a verbal acceptance before sending the offer in writing. This person insists on negotiating salary before sending the paperwork. Generic benefits, RSUs, bonus info have been provided; it’s all unofficial.

This is absurd. Am I missing some “new way” of doing things? Your take?

Any work or use to work at Chartwells K12

In general, how do you negotiate salary? Do you give salary expectations at certain % higher than you realistically want / know the market is at? Do you explain your reasoning or just shoot your shot?

Base salary for M at Accenture, EY, or PWC with 8.5 YOE at D Human Capital (tier 3 city; M.S. degree)? Should I consider any others? Thank you in advance!

Do you have any recommendations on how to approach second round negotiations to get a bit closer to what you said you were expecting? They increased the offer by 15% but original offer was v low

Can someone refer me for role of devops and CI CD at Goldman?

Hi Fishes,

I need likes to enable the DM. Could you please hit a like ?

Thanks 😊.

Howz the work life balance of a Senior Consultant in tech consulting in a client facing role?
Skills: Java 8, Spring Boot.

Please do answer with respect to EY India only.

Role will be as a tech lead in java development team.

Client probably HSBC.

Few days left in Notice Period.

Hi Everyone,
I am looking for a job change , I have 8+ years of experience . I have 6 years of experience in HR generalist and 2 years in Knowledge management.
My current package is 8.2 lakhs and expected is 12 - 15 lakhs
Request you all to fine me a good opportunity I will be grateful to you all


Hoping for positive response.

Hello,

I work in Accenture for Microsoft as an Incident Manager role. How can I secure a job in Microsoft directly and get a role with my current experience in Incident Management?

Open for suggestions 😊

Hello

Looking for a 3bhk semi furnished flat for rent in JP nagar and Jayanagar for a family in a society. Would like to connect with any leads

Thanks.

Anyone seriously wanna start a hedgefund with me ? I can assure a 30% cagr with my quant

Does wipro accept a counter offer? And revised with a fresh offer?

Hi All, posting on behalf of a sibling based in Bangalore,India. She has been impacted by the ongoing layoffs and is in search of a new role. She has about 6 years of experience working in Business Development in the Edtech domain. If you or anyone you know is hiring then please comment and I can get you connected.

Is there a paper or hardware wallet for smaller coin like factom/golem/stratis??!!

Working on introducing ERGs at a company- how did your company decide the first ERGs to start with? How did they communicate the start of ERGs and roll out the structure?

I guess I'll try my luck out... Isn't the ideal thing to have the passion and romance of teenagers, but with the maturity and experience of adults? Hopefully I could find someone here that has that mindset.

Who here has actually made a genuine connection from being in this group? Let’s hear your stories 🍵

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

Orl, Fl males where you @. 32F here

Anybody else struggling with the fact that nearly all their friends are coupled up?
Not in an envious way. Just... Damn, this sh*t can leave you very alone.

Anyone in SF/ San Jose? f25

Any M 40+ in Nairobi? The apps here are not it!

When do we think dating can go back to normal post-pandemic? Are we thinking mid 2021?

Hi! Female 30 in NYC here. I work in the corporate sector. I’m a first generation immigrant. I have a passion for Olympic weightlifting and I love trying new foods, going to the movies, and essentially am a homebody. Looking for someone with similar values.

Is this an active bowl..Or have the 30s fishes turned 40s already?

Any New Yorkers free for a drink tonight?

Any F in Minnesota?

Any Houston male 35+ looking to meet this weekend for a walk, brunch, afternoon movie, or chat?

No pressure just meeting. You have to be single. 😎😊

DM.

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

36 F Black NYC Divorced, 1 tween. anyone want to get to know one another better?

Bored on a Sunday night, any female fish feel like chatting

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?