When is it good to stay at a cushy job?

I'm having a lot of personal and relationship issues lately and I just don't have the energy to go through the interview process anymore. Think im just gonna stay stagnant for now while I sort this shit out.

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Sounds like you may have answered your own question! Take a rest, and revisit when you’re ready.

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I worked at a tech company in SF for a long time. It was always challenging, but at a certain point it was clear I’d gone as far as I was likely to go. Also, while the business issues kept me engaged, the art style was just not good by any industry standards.

Despite how lucrative it had become, it was time to look around. Other criteria for a move also had to be met—around family and geography and of course the opportunities and people at the new place.

Establishing myself and building trust were harder than I thought they’d be, especially with COVID and wfh. Still an ongoing process a year a half in.

So consider how hard you want to work and how close you are to retirement.

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I got laid off a few months back. I understand where you’re coming from. Just remember, there’s productivity in self care.

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One of the worst double standards in corporate america.

Companies especially startups expect you to not keep interviewing when you accept a job offer. “It can deteroriate your brand.”

But companies would replace you in a heartbeat for almost any reason. Including interviewing a candidate who will replace you (you will be fired as soon as they find a person).

So companies can fuck with the little guys but we can’t look for our best interest?

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Hey Guys 💖
I have recieved mail from Acquisition team for interview on 29th July.
I have filled all required information.

Will I get interview invitation link in one day or do I need to remind?

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