A family member quoted a random blog post today to challenge my assessment of their parent. Like, I get they're scared and want to advocate, but I didn't spend years in nursing school to be second-guessed by the internet. How do you stay calm when this happens?

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By reminding myself how much I hate looking for jobs 😂. Tempting as it is, telling these Google scholars how I really feel just isn't worth the trouble it'd cause. When it happens, I listen politely and then inform them that that's not how we do things around here and if they don't agree with our treatment protocols, they're welcome to go elsewhere.

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When it’s family or friends, I just refer them to their actual medical team or doctor. It gets too sensitive too fast. With patients in a work setting, you listen and then explain.

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