"Act broke, stay rich". I've heard people say this and I can never tell if they're being ironic or not. What do you think of this mentality? Do you "act broke"?

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I’ve been broke and now I consider myself rich. I look and act like I’m still broke. I drive a simple truck and live in a modest home. A few people know I have money and they started treating me differently after they found out. I’ve made my money because I went to college and got a good job. I keep my money because I don’t buy a lot of expensive things and live on a budget. Most of the people you see with really expensive cars/things can’t afford them and are typically in a ton of debt.

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That just means don’t live beyond your means. Make 250k? Doesn’t mean you should go buy a 911 it’s pretty self explanatory and you can adjust on a spectrum if you want to eat rice and beans and retire by 35 or.. be less of a miser

Stealth wealth is a thing.

I act/feel broke because I pay myself first (invest) and then live below my means on the rest. So I feel like I'm broke (forced scarcity) while my investments/wealth grows.

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