An honest confession. I am 35 years old female, married to a guy and have 1.5 year old son. I know I like females and often have those dreams where I see myself with some female or the other. Contd..

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During my college days, I used to like someone and we had a good relationship but then I got married. Now I miss a relationship with a female. Is it ok to feel that way? I wish I had a someone as a close female friend with whom I could get physical. All these thoughts come to my mind. I really don’t understand what to do. I have a family and I don’t want to ruin that. But I also feel that I am deprived of a love that I so much want from a female.

Tough situation. My take: I’d talk to your husband about it, maybe go to some relationship/family counseling to talk through options

KPMG1 - do you do so without your family (I’m assuming husband but could be wrong) knowing? How do you go about it?

Depending on how you think your husband would take it, I'd say talk to him. Ask him if he'd be interested in an open relationship. There are a lot of men who don't feel threatened by women (probably wrongly so), and if you guys communicate well, he may be open to allowing you to explore.

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