Anyone else here have a late talker? My 22 month old still isn’t saying anything other than the occasional “da da” and “ball”... She is very much in track on other things like major / fine motor skills, puzzles, animal sounds, and identifying things by pointing, but just isn’t talking like I would’ve expected at this age. I think I am just anxious because this is our first, so we haven’t seen what the talking progression looks like last this age.

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You won’t heed this advice but I’ll give it anyway: Relax!

I know where you are because I was there. My wife and I spent so much time worrying about our first born’s speech. We did evaluations and therapy. We spent all of this time worry if he had other developmental issues. Sleepless nights were the rule rather than the exception.

You know what happened? One day he just decided he was going to talk. Like a switch, he just decided. It wasn’t the therapy or the extra attention, it was just him.

The same thing happened with our other 3 children. We did do so each therapy for her for some articulation issues but that’s a separate thing.

The lesson for us was that we would have been much better parents had we not spent so much time being grumpy because we didn’t sleep, hyper-focus on every sound he made, and drag him from place-to-place getting therapy that didn’t seem to do much.

So, I know that you will worry about your child and me writing this won’t ease your mind. I just hope that maybe you’ll keep this in the back of you mind and try to enjoy this time instead of worry yourself crazy.

Best of luck OP. Enjoy this time.

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My kid didn’t say much at all till 2. He’s 4 now and talking fine. Stressed us out but then picked it up pretty fast once he started trying. They all learn at different speeds

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Do an evaluation. She may need Speech Therapy. For my daughter, we started Speech Therapy at 24 months

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Same here at 24 months. Now at 32 months and won't stop talking with short sentences and vocabulary grows every day. They call it a 'language explosion'. Just happens later for some kids. We did have an evaluation from the state at 24 months and they told us not to worry, and they were right.

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Thanks all for the stories and advice! Makes me feel much more at ease with everything

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Nothing to worry. My toddler started talking a year ago when he was almost 30 months old and now sometimes wish that there was a mute button for him.

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Hahaha, this

Our first was in the same type of place, then around his second birthday he stood up in his crib and yelled at me, “Daddy, take this diaper off!”

I almost fell over.

It’ll click soon :)

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My 25 month old is starting to progress but not overly so. We’ve had him seen and evaluated by several folks and because his development is more advanced we’re hopeful speech will catch up. I didn’t really talk until I was 2.5 either so we’re hoping that’s the case

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Follow speech sisters on Instagram, they have some awesome suggestions. They really helped my 2 year old. Her vocab is now ~200 words up from 10-15 6 months ago

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I am with you. Mine is the same age and isn’t saying much at all either. We speak to him in two languages all day, which based on everything I’ve read, explains the delay. Doctor told us not to worry about it.

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I have two kids who are late talkers and use AAC devices. Get an eval better to know and address the problem than to pretend the problem is going to go away. Sometimes not talking is related to other issues; professionals can be a great fresh set of eyes.

22 months is not panic time just stay diligent and aware.

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