Anyone experience someone new joining their team at the same level or just below, feel a competitiveness or tension from the new person? I’ve extended the olive branch and have been warm / welcoming but don’t receive the same gratitude or warmth back, but I see that person try with other team members ( the creatives or our manager). Trying to set up a friendly relationship but almost feeling like they want to outshine me. Any advice?

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I don't know if it's a good idea to read too much into that. When you're new in an organization it's just awkward, and some people can come off as being distant or aloof. It's conceivable the person is out to shiv you, so I don't mean to dismiss that entirely. But it's also possible they're entirely harmless.

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Thank you so much, appreciate this!

Trust your gut and keep it professional but keep your distance from her

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Yeah it’s wild to see and I just remain who I am while being cautious and aware that this is the type of person who will throw you under the bus when it benefits them.

Hmmm…it would make me wonder if whomever hired this person might have mentioned something about you. Are you feeling confident in your position? Have you received any feedback from your supervisor about your work?

I’ve been hired in the past with the knowledge that a certain person in my department isn’t working out. It made me keep my distance.

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