As a single lady in healthcare leadership, I am finishing it increasingly isolating. I don't want to date anyone at work. But the hours I spend at this job make it really hard to have a life outside of work. Can anyone relate or have advice?

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Yep, I have a tough time...I feel like I'm lonely even more than usual bc a lot of other women have left the team, so it's mostly me and a bunch of men who are not the friend list...just feels like I'm on my own a lot more than usual

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I feel you! It certainly helps when you can relate to your coworkers as friends also. I hope you find some good friends and support in and out of the workplace!

Try Bumble. I find it much better than the other dating apps. I've been dating the first guy I met on there for ~6 months and we're really happy.

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