As funny as this is, I've noticed my job actually makes my anxiety levels skyrocket! How do you all keep your stress at bay? I could be killing myself for all I know.

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You should seek professional help if your anxiety is skyrocketing. Anxiety is a mental health issue that impacts people in different ways. Are you in therapy?

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Look at UCLA. There may be a wait for their mental health clinics but they have flexible zoom and group therapy options available sooner.

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