Can dating go very slow and then turn serious? I’m at 5 months and NOW he is starting to drive me home to show care but then he always says something immature like o if u were farther I’d have second thoughts tho and laugh about it, it confuses me but idk if he’s serious or not because it does show he’s not trying to lose me every time I am with him and we are exclusive. He is trying to celebrate me more too for getting a new job to take me on fancy dinner, I wasn’t expecting that. He’s 27, I 31

26M looking for F in the Chicago area

Dating. How do you navigate dating attorneys and being a judicial law clerk? Conflicts? Awkwardness?

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

Interesting debate with a colleague: which is more personal/intimate: oral sex or intercourse?

Any singles here?

Which dating apps do you think are the best? I'm thinking Match and Bumble.

Hi. Can I bounce some ideas for a spot off one of ya?

Is anyone interested in connecting over coffee?

Have a crush on my co-worker. He asked me out to go rock climbing one-on-one after we were texting for a while and I acted awkwardly when we went because I didn’t know if it was a date (nothing was explicitly said). Now I’m stuck in this weird limbo state where things have fizzled out but I’m re-reading texts and think he might’ve actually had a crush too and I pushed him away. Ambiguity sucks.

I feel like when I’m busy with work, I don’t even want to reply to attractive guys. Is this normal?

F 🐠 looking for a happy guy?

I am pretty funny tho not too pretty - 30 M NYC

First time dating after a life of work,studies and being a geek

(Any "padosan" fans get the joke abt starting at 30?)

How is dating in Jax? Apps seem to suck. 26M here trying to date or just to make new friends

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

Looking to settle a debate between myself and a few friends - at what point is it appropriate to ask someone you’re dating if they’re also dating other people? Relatedly, do you have an obligation to tell whoever you’re dating that you’re dating other people?

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

Just hit diamond with Hilton! Garçon, your freshest bottle of grey poupon your most average of rooms if you please, thank you. 💅

Thoughts on calendar being double booked? What are the etiquettes to be followed. Often people double book and it feels like “ my meeting is more important that whatever you have booked time for in yours”. If both meetings are same urgency/importance - what’s the best approach ? What are the expectations of leadership - to throw everything away and jump on to calls based on seniority ?

Looking for a role in strategy and m&a consulting if possible in healthcare and life sciences, however I am open to working across sectors. ~4 years YoE. Would appreciate any help here :)

I just started a new job 2 months ago, benefits and PTO don’t start until 90 days in so I still have a month before I can take off any time, and today found out my company doesn’t offer paid maternity leave.
I’m really struggling handling the symptoms and maintaining my full time job. Thinking about looking for a part time job to have more time to myself through the pregnancy since I won’t be getting a paid leave anyways, but lost on where to start looking. Any recommendations?

Context: suit shopping for a wedding.
Having to buy an off the rack suit for a wedding, the only options are 40 or 42, when I normally measure 41. Do I buy 42 and just get tailored more heavily?

Best slim wallet?

Any TAM here?

Pro tip: live close to poorer people to feel rich. The feelings of wealth are extremely subjective and is mainly based on comparison

Thoughts on asking a client to change a meeting in September due to Jewish holidays? It’s a lot of participants and they want me to prep and facilitate for their team.

Has anyone seen any decent MQD run ideas for Delta recently? I’m about 8k MQDs from diamond. Seems the Aeromexico method is on hold until they are fully back up and running. Thanks!

What are the best companies to be a PM at in the LA area? Any recommended startups/small biz?

Does previous Consulting experience increase your odds when applying for MBB during MBA recruiting?

When covid first hit, I was delighted to be working from home. My hours even improved. Now, because of some triggering events, I’m dealing with horrible panic attacks on the daily. I’m dissociating and can’t focus long enough to get work done. I JUST hit a year at this firm and am going on a one month stress leave. Worried I might not kick this mental state in that time. Any advice as to what I can do while on leave so I can come back focused and ready to work?

please help me how to apply performance test engineer jobs in nagarro please let me know

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Can anyone refer me for a data science analyst role in Amex

Thanks .

Hi ,
I am a Java developer with 4.5 years of experience and would want to relocate to Netherlands, Belgium ,Germany ,please let me know any opportunities with Visa sponsorship.Currently working with a major airline company. I am open to other domains as well
My key skills are.
Java 11 Rest APIs
Junit Mysql and Cassandra DB
Data structures and Algorithms
Well versed with Git ,Maven ,Sonar Qube,Postman
Good with monitoring tools like Dynatrace and Sumo logic.
Worked in Agile environment.

Has anyone had experience with a service dog? Either as your own or a coworkers.

I’m looking into getting one for my ADA-approved disability, but I don’t know how EY will feel about it (even though it’s covered under the law). It would be great to hear your experience!

Senior Analyst in a coverage role- tips to stay engaged during this slump? With deal flow essentially halted, where do you see juniors adding the most value and standing out during all of this?

It’s my birthday in a few minutes. 2021 has been a terrible year for me. My marriage ended. It wasn’t a bad end though. We are still close, just not romantic partners anymore. The very first dog I ever had died and I couldn’t go see her because of the quarantine. I didn’t get a promotion that I more than deserved. I don’t think I get paid well. Most of my friends moved out of the city and I’m having to meet new people at 32. I love my job but it’s incredibly stressful. I’m terribly lonely.

My girlfriend of 4 years routinely gets so angry at me in the form of “triggers.” She has childhood trauma from her terrible parents. I’ve gone to therapy with her to learn techniques to help, but when I do them during one of her triggers she says I didn’t do them. Later I’ll learn that she’s literally does not remember things I say and do when she’s in a dissociated state. Tonight it was because I didn’t get her oil changed like I said I would. Now she’s threatening to break up because idk how

How do you know if you have good hygiene? my ex told me I don’t

This is my routine:
- I have curly hair, can only wash it once a week/put dry shampoo if needed
- I brush my teeth 2 times a day
- Wear deodorant / perfume every day (my way, and good girl) and shave off any hair (I did laser but still), as much as possible. Some days, I cannot keep up with shaving (especially if it won’t show)
- I wear pantyliners and change it once a day/ change panties once a day
- I shower my body every day

Just ordered a pizza. Another thrilling night in with the bf. What's everyone else up to?

Alright so I have been with my partner for several years and recently she said that she wants to get married. Im Happy with what we have now and don't feel the need to get married. Why do people get married? People all around us are getting married and engaged and I feel like that is weighing on her but when we drown all that out and it's just us we are happy!

I am so tired of my sister and mom, and the pressure they apply on me to get married, 32 year old female and I have not met someone yet. I was in a relationship last year for a year and he turned out to be a very mean person and they now don’t trust me at all and want me to marry the first nice guy I go on a date with even if I have no attraction at all, and if I go on a couple of dates and I don’t feel it, they question my judgement. I feel like dying from the pressure.

I want to spend $10k on a cruise to Antarctica. My wife doesn’t want to go and doesn’t think I should spend the money either. I make 200k and she makes 65k. I worked hard to get a 37k hot skill bonus from all the certs I studied for. We are recently married. I’m discouraged because I feel like I can’t save and spend my money the way I did before. I know marriage is supposed to be united financially, but since we are recently married it’s tough to give up my freedom financially. Advice?

Anyone be in a relationship where the other has an alcohol problem? Every night out drinking leads to emotional breakdowns and fights. Been going on for 6 months now. Should I break up?

I have been in the US from Canada on contract for the past 6 months. My fiancé and I were supposed to get married and move here permanently in the fall. She has now called off the wedding, and has told me she doesn’t want me to move to the states. I got a great offer. Great job. Don’t want to lose the love of my life but I feel played. I worked so hard for this. She’s ripping out my heart, and taking my livelihood away. Am I wrong to not abide by her choice? Ask for the ring back?

One of ex’s friends who is I met twice, has been in touch, him and his wife, like commenting on some of my posts occasionally (we are just fb friends and IG friends). I never saw them since. Then the friend texts asking if I am seeing someone and that he wants to set me up with someone. He felt awkward doing that, I thanked him for thinking of me, but then he said we all told your ex he is an idiot for letting you go and they asked my ex it they could still be touch with me and he said yes.

Made an appointment with my therapist to talk through the issues in my relationship. Coronavirus has been rough on us

Ladies of fishbowl, question. Girl says she wants to get drinks as friends, but is persistent in getting your number to text. Overthinking or is there something behind this? I’m also good friends with her current landlord/roommate.